12. You Can Have It All Without Sacrifice: Why the How Is None of Your Business

Her card declined on a five dollar coffee. A friend had to buy it for her. Victoria was a hairdresser in her early thirties with two kids, working late nights and burnt out, and she made a decision right there: never again.

This solo episode is about how she got from that day to here. She didn't burn her life down to do it, and she didn't work herself into the ground. Victoria's case is that you can have it all without sacrifice, as long as you are willing to make a trade. Those are two very different things.

In this episode:
• The declined card, and what Victoria told her friend that day
• Sacrifice versus trade-off, and why you can be radical without destroying what you've built
• The question to ask before any big change: what do you want, and how do you want it?
• Why the partner, the job or the house can look good on paper and still be only half manifested
• The two ways people manifest, specific or go with the flow, and how to work with yours
• The year her sister spent in a rental waiting for the right house, and what the wait was really for
• Change it or leave it: marriage, work, money and your body
• Why the how is none of your business, and what your job is instead
• The 11:11 story Victoria still can't quite believe, and she was there
• What happens when you only tell the universe what you don't want
• Why she records at 6am and sleeps at 3pm: living by your own design, not anyone else's
• The question she leaves you with: who are you not to live your best life?

Mentioned in this episode: Human Design, Abraham Hicks.

Please note, this episode contains strong language.

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