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Which psychic door is open? Why you can’t see Spirit yet

Why some people see and some don’t, the four doors of feeling, knowing, hearing and seeing, and a guided meditation through your own psychic mansion to find which door is already open.

  • Victoria Bond
  • Free video lesson
  • Full transcript below
  • 7K+views on YouTube
  • 29 minfree lesson
  • 4psychic doors to explore
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One minute, eyes open or closed. Victoria’s test for anyone who believes they can’t see.

  1. Picture something simple.Can you visualise a yellow top? Not with your eyes, but with your mind.
  2. Say your name inside.Can you say your name in your head? Then notice how you heard it.
  3. Imagine something you want.You can see if you can imagine. A dream car, a dream home, an outfit. That is your greatest imagination at work.

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“The world is your oyster when it comes to mediumship and everyone is a medium.”
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What people say after watching

I felt them all… tingling all over but almost tilting around like I was in a tunnel like (tilt a whirl 😂) feeling with the colour purple very prominent
Angel
I had 4 guides, I seen and felt the color and vortexes around me. I could see water and feel the wind. My child hood horse was galloping towards me
Anna
Still learning but I think I'm 2 & 3, I often do things for no apparent reason and then within minutes see WHY I just did what I did(but don't realize I'm doing whatever it is for a REASON), I also get those pitches in my ears and I see visual signs in my path(ie license plates or road signs etc) confirming thoughts
Kimberly
It's numbers 1 and 2 for me. What you are saying is so true, Victoria. Thank you. 😊
Monica
I get random Goosebumps but I never know what it's for. And I get ringing in my ears but I also don't know what its for.
Susie
I feel others energy and can change the energy around me.
Cheryl
Beautiful. Thank you so much.
Caroline
LOVEEEE this!!!! So excited to start your course!
Lindsey

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In her own words

“We're often hearing not with our ears but we're hearing in our mind, and we can get really confused because the voice that we're hearing in our mind is our voice. So how can it be spirits or how can it be our guides?”
Victoria Bond, in this video
“Your higher self, your future self, your guides and spirit are often talking in your very own voice. So that's the first thing that I want to say about clairaudience.”
Victoria Bond, in this video
“When people come to me and they go, I've actually got like a thing where I actually can't see, I ask them if they can dream of a dream car or a dream property or a dream life.”
Victoria Bond, in this video

Questions this video answers

Can you be a medium if you can’t see Spirit?

Somewhere along the line, you decided that because you can't see, that means you are not a medium. Well, my love, you have got it all backwards. Just because you can't see, or just because you can't hear, or whatever it is that is going on with you, doesn't mean you're not a medium. So I truly believe that everybody has everything.

Why does Spirit sound like my own voice?

We're often hearing not with our ears, but we're hearing in our mind, and we can get really confused because the voice that we're hearing in our mind is our voice. We're expecting this different kind of voice to come through, or a different accent to come through, or a different gender, or a different age. But your higher self, your future self, your guides and spirit are often talking in your very own voice.

Can I be a medium with aphantasia?

Some people have a thing called aphantasia. This is when you see nothing when you close your eyes. But what about this greatest imagination? Can you visualise a yellow top? Not with your eyes, but with your mind. What about your name? Can you say your name in your head? If you can say it in your head, how are you hearing it? How are you seeing it? Through your imagination.

Why did I stop trusting my intuition?

The knowing that we know was kind of, I want to say, taken away from us when we were children. All you had to have was one parent, one caregiver, one person that had an authority, maybe like a teacher or a peer, say, no, you're wrong. And we just go, oh, I better shut down that knowing. So this is something that it's quite easy to open up with some reprogramming. You already know things.

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Years of ear pops

Clairaudience has always been very, very strong for me. But I didn't think it was clairaudience. I just thought it was a song looping. I just thought it was my ear getting hot. I just thought that it was the water in my ear, or the frequency rising from driving in a car.

And I giggle, because it was years. It was years of my ears popping, and I even went to the doctor, and I was like, I don't know, but I feel like there's water in my ear. I went and got some of those candles to burn, because I was like, there's something wrong with my ears.

“Spirit was trying to talk to me. And as soon as I started listening, all of those symptoms went away.”
Victoria Bond, in this video

And even now, I'll be on a call, I'll be doing a Magnificent Mediumship live training, and I'll be like, oh, stop. And I might be getting that really high pitch, or I'll be getting the ears popping. So I'll be like, guys, ease up. Ease up. I know that you're here. And then I'll invite them to come and speak to me.

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Somewhere along the line, you decided that because you can't see, that means you are not a medium. Well, my love, you have got it all backwards. And in this video, I'm going to share with you why some people see and why some people do not. I'm going to take you through four main doors so you can explore which door is wide open, which one is closed, and which one is a little bit ajar, and we can explore these together. We're going to go into your very own psychic mansion. Hello and welcome if this is your first time here.

My name is Victoria Bond. I'm a psychic medium, a spiritual empowerment coach. If you have quietly decided that mediumship is an interest, but you're not really a medium and you're just kind of exploring it a little bit, you need to watch this because the truth is you are a medium. I absolutely promise you this, but we need to reprogram those mistaken beliefs. Just because you can't see or just because you can't hear or whatever it is that is going on with you doesn't mean you're not a medium. I remember not being able to get names.

I remember not getting dates. I remember not getting anything significant to be able to hold on to. But when I realised that I had a mistaken belief and that was a story that I was telling myself, everything changed. Names started dropping in as well as dates as well as things that I could not ever possibly know. So here we go. I'm going to take you through these four doors and explain a little bit more about this because as a spiritual educator, I want you to understand how powerful you are.

But not only that, I'm going to take you through activations. I'm going to take you through a space where you get to enhance and embrace your gifts and bring them out to the world. Door one is clairsentience. This is all about feeling. Now for me this is my strongest clair but it never used to be. I never used to be able to feel anything and everything that I did feel I thought it was mine.

Hmm, interesting. So maybe I was feeling everything but I was absolutely bypassing it. We are compassionate. We are empathic. We are sensitive creatures and feeling comes naturally to us. Sometimes we might block the clairsentience because we have felt too much. It can be overstimulating and overwhelming. We usually close this down when we are children.

Okay? Everything gets a little bit too much for us. So, we close the door, but this is natural to us. So, today we're going to explore the feeling, the clairsentience, because this is something that you do without even trying. In fact, I would say that if you've been trying to feel spirit or feel another and you've been feeling like you're blocked here, that you are trying too hard. I'm curious, do you feel others?

Are you empathic? Do you feel if there's something around you? Are you clairsentient? Do you feel sensitivities to energy changes to like maybe you can even feel if there is a temperature change? Maybe you get the spidey radar on your arms, the goosebumps. I'm curious. Let me know how that lands for you and how you are already feeling. Or maybe you get a nothing.

Pop that down in the chat and let me know as well. Door two, claircognizance. This is all about knowing. So, of course, we are knowing creatures and feeling creatures. Like I've just said, we are sensitry and the knowing that we know was kind of I want to say it was like taken away from us when we were children. All you had to have was one parent, one caregiver, one person that had an authority, maybe like a teacher or a peer say, "No, you're wrong." And we just go, "Oh, I better shut down that knowing." So, this is something that it's quite easy to open it up with some reprogramming.

You already know things. Now, something happened to me which was kind of crazy. Okay, I'm not going to go too much into the details. I want to keep this nice and short and about you. But I had been thinking about my best friend. I've been thinking about her for weeks. And when I tuned into her, I thought, I'm not going to message her. I'm going to wait for her to come to me.

She came to me with something massive. In fact, it was so big that it made sense. The reason why I'd been thinking about her and knowing something wasn't quite right because something pretty big was happening in her reality. And I found out all the reasons why. The point is I knew something was not right and I also knew that she would come to me when she was ready and then we were able to start a dialogue and I'm able to support her and all the things. You know, like and you've got to trust what your knowing is.

Door three is all about hearing. We could say this is called clairaudience. Now the funny thing about this is we're often hearing not with our ears but we're hearing in our mind and we can get really confused because the voice that we're hearing in our mind is our voice. So how can it be spirits or how can it be our guides? We're expecting this different kind of voice to come through or a different accent to come through or a different gender or a different age to come through. But your higher self, your future self, your guides and spirit are often talking in your very own voice.

So that's the first thing that I want to say about the clairaudience. But also the ears popping, the heating up of the air. Often I'll be like, whoa, my ear when I'm channelling my ear is red and hot. I will sometimes get like tingling. Or I will hear a song that is repeating the same lyrics over and over and over and over and over in my head. So, clairaudience has always been very, very strong for me.

But I didn't think it was clairaudience. I just thought it was a song looping. I just thought it was my ear getting hot. I just thought that it was like the ear water in my ear or the frequency like rising from driving in a car. And I giggle because it was years. It was years of my ears popping and I even went to the doctor and I was like, I don't know, but I feel like there's water in my ear.

Like I I went and got some of those candles to burn because I was like, there's something wrong with my ears. Spirit was trying to talk to me. And as soon as I started listening, all of those symptoms went away. And even now, I'll be on a call. I'll be doing a Magnificent Mediumship live training and I'll be like, "Oh, stop." And I might be getting that really high pitch or I'll be getting the ears popping. So I'll be like, "Guys, ease up.

Ease up. I know that you're here and then I'll invite them to come and speak to me." So clairaudience, have you had any of those signs? I would absolutely love to know. And make sure you're writing this down in your notebook if you're taking notes because you're going to be able to look at it and see that you have evidence of your psychic abilities. So soon we're going to be doing an activation. We're going to be doing a meditation where you get to discover and explore your very own psychic mansion.

I love doing this meditation with my mediums. So before we do that, let's go into the fourth door. This is seeing. And seeing is the last one that we're exploring because seeing is the most obvious thing. Did you know that most people are clairvoyant first and foremost? But they don't know what they're looking for. Isn't that interesting? So, your eyes are always scanning.

We're always seeing things without actually processing it. And in one of my videos, I go much deeper into this, but quite often we will see something in our mind's eye or we'll see something with our eyes and we're starting to piece together the pieces of the puzzle to create the story because reading is like a movie that has got lots of moving parts and then our brain will literally put it into the junk pile before it even gets to a conscious mind. Basically, you're always seeing. Basically, you are always processing different parts of your psychic. You're always scanning all the time. Okay?

So, maybe it's not natural for you to put it together. Maybe it's not natural for you to decipher what you're seeing or like understand that language. Maybe you are more clairsentient or claircognizant or clairaudient. Maybe that's easier for you. To put it in another way, I am very vocal. I like to listen to audio books, but I cannot read a book to save myself.

I read the same part of the book over and over and over and over again. It's like hard work. So, what we want to do when we go into your very own psychic mansion, if you will, is we want to open up these doors and make it more easy for you. When we are visualising, it is our greatest imagination. I heard a psychic say that one day and I went, "Oh my god, you have changed my life. Your greatest imagination is how you see." So when people come to me and they go, I've actually got like a thing where I actually can't see, I ask them if they can dream of a dream car or a dream property or a dream life or what kind of outfit do they want or I get them to start exploring and if they've got an imagination, I tell you one thing, they can see.

You can see if you can imagine. Okay? So maybe I am debunking a myth here. Maybe I'm changing your mind. Or maybe you're like, I'm blank. And that's okay as well because you have got other places where you are powerful and strong. And again, I'm just going to kind of throw it out there and say maybe it's just a muscle that's a little bit weaker that we need to work on.

And that's something that we're going to do in this series. The other thing about seeing is often when we are wanting to connect in with spirit and we're wanting to see something, we're trying too hard. I say this all the time, mediumship's not hard. Going to spirit mode is a space that I teach about in MM where we're going into the space of relaxation into the heart space of awareness. We're going beyond the body and into the being. So, when we're asking to see, often you might see a round ball or maybe you see a letter or maybe you just see a little spark of colour or maybe you think about your spaghetti bolognese that you want to cook.

Maybe there is a sign in all of those things, but rather than being patient and allowing the little bit by the little bit by little bit come through, you're trying to get the full picture before you are ready to receive it. You've got to remember it's not just you doing the reading, it's you receiving information from spirit. Some people have a thing called aphantasia. This is when you see nothing when you close your eyes. But what about this greatest imagination? Can you visualise a yellow top?

Not with your eyes, but with your mind. What about your name? Can you say your name in your head? Interesting. If you can say it in your head, how are you hearing it? How are you seeing it through your imagination? So, I just want to drop that in there. I want to seed that and see what else comes about with this little invitation. So, we've got the four doors.

We've got the clairsentience, which is the feeling. We've got the claircognizance, which is the knowing. The clairaudience, which is the hearing, and of course, the clairvoyance, which is the seeing. I like to challenge people on what they think something is. Because I believe that nothing is solid or dense. Everything is variable. And also, we've all got different ways of perceiving and we've all got different conditioning.

So, I truly believe that everybody has everything. Okay, my friends, how are you feeling? Have a little look around the room. We are now going to do the meditation. Okay, this is an activation. It's very, very powerful and you might want to come back and do this again as well. Close your eyes down ready if you haven't done so already. And feel your feet on the ground.

Dropping your barriers down, down, down. Bringing roots from your feet into the earth. Wrapping around the earth and through the earth. Breathing in a golden light and lighting up the earth underneath you. Visualising a golden light coming from the cosmos down through your vessel. Straight down through your ve and into the earth. Lighting it up. Lighting it up.

Lighting it up. Breathing in golden light. And now breathing it out into your vessel and into your aura. Making sure you are in your heart space. There's nowhere you need to be apart from here right now. And now I want you to acknowledge, maybe you sense, maybe you see that you are in your very own mediumship mansion. This is your psychic palace. There is four main doors.

There is many many doors but you are noticing the four. You might see colours of these doors. Maybe you see nothing and that is okay. Please know that they are there. Using your greatest imagination. Maybe you see the door knobs, the size of the doors, or maybe you just know that there is four different spaces for you to explore. Today, I want you to notice what you notice within your feelings, within your body.

Some people might feel the fear of not getting this right. Some people might feel expansive with my voice. Some of you may be hoping this works and some of you may be feeling a little bit triggered. Any feelings are welcome here. You're going to go to door one, clairsentience. You're going to open that door and you're going to step into this portal, activating your clairsentience.

Now dropping all of the judgment, all of the conditioning that is to do with you feeling. Allowing yourself to feel what you feel right now. Beautiful. Stepping out of that vortex now, out of that portal and shutting the door, knowing you can come back at any time. And now I want you to go into the claircognizance door. Door number two, opening the door.

And again, if you can't see it, just know that this is happening. Step on in to the knowing portal. The knowing vortex. I know what I know because I know it because I step into my being and I know through my heart, not my head. And we're going to let go of any judgments, any conditioning about our very own knowing. You are the strongest entity in your reality.

What you know is yours to know. This is a gut knowing. This is an intuition. You are born knowing because you are an all knowing soul. And now I want you to notice what you know. What do you know? You might even know that you're not alone right now that you are in a cocreation with spirit with thousands of other people doing this very meditation. Stepping out of that door, closing the door and now going to door number three.

Clairaudience stepping in. This is all about hearing. I want you to notice your ears and notice what you can hear. What can you hear with your ears? My voice. Maybe there's sounds of your body and around your body. And in the room that your body is in and just tracking back and remembering. Have you had any high pitch noises? What about songs? Is there a particular noise, song, voice that is soothing to you?

What have you heard in your life that has shaped your reality? Acknowledging the power of your clairaudience. Now hearing beyond the room, hearing the silence. And when you're ready, stepping out of that door and getting ready for door number four. Clairvoyance. Opening that door. Your all knowing soul knows that you're going through that door. Maybe you see the door.

Maybe you don't. Maybe you sense coming from your heart space, coming from your being, being in the door of clairvoyance, the seeing. Can you see behind your eyelids? Can you see your greatest imagination? Can you see your body sitting or lying where it is right now from an expanded viewpoint from your being? Can you see or hear or feel or know a daisy, a flower, an amethyst, the sun, the ocean?

Can you see the song, the vibrations and the frequencies? As we strengthen this muscle, I want you to acknowledge that you can see. I can see. I see with my eyes. I have visions of my future. I can see the colour blue, yellow, purple, orange, and green. I see in my very own unique way. I see my own perspective. I see my own gifts. I see my magic and purpose.

And now I want you to notice what you can see. Maybe we see where we've blocked ourselves. Maybe we see a pattern that is ready to be broken. Maybe we don't see this with our eyes. We see this with our soul. Stepping out of door four now. Standing in the middle of your mediumship mansion, your psychic palace. And notice all the doors and all of the corridors allowing the doors of clairsentience, claircognizance, clairaudience, and clairvoyance to open.

And notice the brightest, shiniest, warmest light flooding through those doors and into your soul, into your heart. Know this is happening as you activate. Now I am willing to receive my gifts. I drop all fear because I am the strongest entity in my reality. We shut all the doors but we know they are open within us. And if we want to access them at any time, we can simply come into this space to go even deeper.

I want you to start journeying home now. Maybe you go to the front door of this mediumship mansion. Or maybe you just start bringing yourself back to your body. You can open the door to the mansion and come on out. Or you can fall back into your body. Bringing your awareness completely back into your body. Noticing what you can taste in your mouth. Noticing what you can see behind your eyelids.

Noticing what you can smell through your nostrils and hear with your ears. Three. Two. Two one back into your body wide awake and energized. Welcome back my friends. That was such a journey to be with you and to watch you go through that. The world is your oyster when it comes to mediumship and everyone is a medium. Thank you for being here.

Victoria Bond

Victoria Bond was a hairdresser in a small New Zealand town until she woke up to her gifts at 33. Author of Everyone Is a Medium. Read her story.