The 4 psychic blocks that stop you seeing, hearing and feeling Spirit
Psychic fog, emotional overload, the logical filter and visual doubt: the four blocks Victoria sees most, and a short practice to clear each one, done together as you watch.
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“Thank you so much for this video. Very clear and simple practices which really help 𩵔
Try this first
One minute, with whatever is near you: a cup, a pen, a crystal. This is the clarity question, Victoriaās practice for psychic fog.
- Pick up an object.
Don't be fussy. Just grab an object right now.
- Ask one question out loud.
Spirit, what am I missing?
Look at the object as you ask. - Take the first word.
Don't think, don't go into research mode.
A colour, a feeling, a name, a place. Notice what you get.
In this video (tap a moment to jump to it)
Tap every one that sounds like you
These are the four blocks Victoria describes, in the words people use about themselves. Tick the ones that are yours.
Tap the ones that feel familiar.
“Even if you unblocked one thing or you took one method today, one little simple hack, and apply it to your life, it's going to change the trajectory of your mediumship.”
What people say after watching
This was so useful, simple and clear and helped. The shape wasn't a picture but I received a knowing of a heart and a warmth in my heart chakra. The rest all worked so the last one was hardest. Thankyou
I got the name Richard. Thatās my little brother.
I heard the name Gloria. š I know no Glorias, wouldn't even think of the name Gloria .... and the eyelid thing... so cool, I knew I was in the zone when i started seeing neon-purple lightening. Tysm ā¤š
The colour was egg yolk yellow and the shape was like the shape you see in the pool when the water moves on a sunny day. ⦠I also think Ive been carrying around someone elses energy. That clearing made me feel so much better. Great video.
Itās the first time in a long time that I actually saw and felt things and I close my eyes and looked at my eye head. I saw a triangle and then I saw a flame, but it was purple.
So cool! The whisper was a great great great grandfather that I learned about a few years ago. Then you mentioned a grandfather. Super dope! Thanks!!! ⦠I also appreciate the spiritual hygiene practice. Iāll do it daily, Iām sure it will help a lot.
When I asked spirit what I am missing, FLOW came to me.
2 for me. Best teaching video ever.
Loved that when I asked for a shape I saw my white dove flying towards me xx
Real comments, word for word, from the video on YouTube.
In her own words
“If you get out of your brain and into your heart space and allow the energy to flow without the judgment, without the mind chatter, without the doubting, spirit comes through super clear.”
“Even if you think you made this up, you did not. Clairaudience is interesting. It only comes in when you are out of the logical mind.”
“When we expect to see in like a full vision, a full movie or anything like that, quite often we are disappointed because we were focusing on that, we missed out on the flashes or the symbols, the colour, the tiny impression.”
Questions this video answers
Why canāt I see or hear Spirit?
Most people feel like they should just be able to close their eyes and receive a message from spirit, from their loved one or a guide. But honestly, 99% of the time it doesn't happen that way. It's a lot more subtle. And a lot of the time we're too noisy with our brains. We've got so much noise going on that we miss the signals completely. It's soft, it's subtle. It's signals versus noise.
How do empaths clear other peopleās energy?
I had to learn a very long time ago, when I left a situation, a person, a reading, whatever it is, I had to clear my energy, because if I didn't, the residue would literally follow me through my house. Imagine that there is a plug at the bottom of your feet. Let anything and everything that is not yours drain out of your body and into the earth. Who does this energy truly belong to? Return to source consciousness with love.
How do I know if Iām making it up?
You go to your brain and you go, oh, that's random. That's not spirit. I'm making that up. That's too simple. Well, this is for you. There is no logical path when it comes to mediumship. It is about expanding and allowing whatever is coming through. Even if you think you made this up, you did not.
What if Iāve never seen Spirit?
The biggest thing that I see with people that have got this block is they tell me that they can't see spirit. So they're affirming it again and again. We are literally creating the block ourselves. Now, we can simply change this by saying, I haven't seen spirit yet, or I'm not really sure how I see spirit. That can change everything.
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What Victoria asked herself the day she stopped believing she had missed the gene
A name for a complete stranger
I was doing a reading in a live, where I quite often do evidential mediumship. And here I am, reading for someone I've never met before. And all of a sudden, I'm seeing this grandfather energy, just in my mind's eye, as clear as day. And I get a name, and the name popped in so strong.
And I literally said, I've got this name right now. Does that mean anything to you? It just popped in, like in my mind's eye. It's nearly like I heard it, but I didn't hear it. I didn't hear it externally. And I said to the person who I was reading for, does this name make any sense to you?
“And she said, that is the name of the grandfather that you're talking to right now.”
Now, there is dozens of people watching. I don't know who this person is. I've never heard from them or seen them in my whole entire life. They live on the other side of the world. They just found me and jumped into a live.
How does this work? Faith. It's by trusting the process. It's about getting out of the logical mind. It's about removing that filter, and using the logical filter for the things that we really need it for in our everyday human life.
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If you can't see, hear, feel, or even sense spirit, it's not because you're doing it wrong. It's not because you don't have the gift. You're simply blocked. In this video, I'm going to share with you the four core psychic blocks that could be blocking you. Unblocking one of these four, it could change the whole trajectory of your mediumship and psychic ability. Before we get into the blocks, I want to share with you most people feel like they should just be able to close their eyes and receive a message from spirit from their loved one or a guide.
But honestly, 99% of the time it doesn't happen that way. It's a lot more subtle. It's not as clear and concise. It's not like you and I just having a conversation. You seeing me right here in my 3D form. It's different. Yes, sometimes we can have very clear evidence from spirit, but most of the time it is so much more subtle than that. And a lot of the time we're too noisy with our brains.
We've got so much noise going on that we miss the signals completely. You know, a word, a sensation, a smell, even seeing like a glimpse of your granddad in a older gentleman at the cafe. That's happened to me so many times. Is spirit speaking to you? And if we can quiet our minds down, if we can come into the subtleties, into the nuances of the spiritual realms, we are so much richer in our spirituality, in our psychic abilities. Let's get into the four core psychic blocks.
So you can unblock them quickly and start practicing. The first one is claircognizance block. So this is literally the psychic fog. Who does this apply to the most? Well, it applies to the brainiacs. The intellectuals, where the mind is the greatest tool. Unfortunately, when it comes to mediumship, what happens is the overanalyzing can come in thinking it is your imagination or thinking it's something from the subconscious.
When the truth is, if you get out of your brain and into your heart space and allow the energy to flow without the judgment, without the mind chatter, without the doubting, spirit comes through super clear. The fix is simple. So, this is the good news. It's called the clarity question. So, are you ready to unblock this block? We're going to do it right now.
So, what I want you to do is to find an object. I have got my wand. Find an object that is popping out that is around you. Or go find one right now. It can be a cup. It can be a pen. It can be a crystal. It can be whatever you want. Don't be fussy. Just grab an object right now. Look at the object and say this one thing out loud. Spirit, what am I missing?
Now, don't think, don't go into research mode. Don't go into that intelligent brain of yours. What is the first word that pops in? Now, it might be a colour, a feeling, a name, a place. It might come in visually. It might pop in your ear. I just want you to notice what you get. So if you had to pause the video, go for it to make sure that you actually can focus on the object and ask the question: Spirit, what is it that I'm missing?
Number two is the emotional overload. So this is the clairsentience block. And of course you can probably guess this is for the empaths. So, of course, if you are feeling lots of energy, if you're feeling emotional around other people, if you're feeling like you're in a bit of a wave, a roller coaster, when you're literally in situations or around other people, this is because you are an empath. And of course, this is only blocked when you don't know how to train that energy, when you don't know how to get a hold of it, when it takes over. So, what do we do about it?
First of all, we need to understand whether this is a block that you have. Do you feel like you are different when you are in the aura of somebody else and different people have different effects? If you have a random emotion that does not belong to you and how you've been in that day, then I would put money on it that this one is for you. This is an energy residue. And when you have been with somebody and literally felt the energy, that could be actually amazing when you're doing mediumship. And for me, I am an empath.
I do feel others. I feel all sorts. But I had to learn a very long time ago when I left a situation, a person, a reading, whatever it is, I had to clear my energy because if I didn't, the residue would literally follow me through my house. It would follow me into my relationships, even into the shower. When I'm in the shower just like crying, feeling so bad for the person's hair I just cut or the reading that I just did. And this is no way to live.
So, we've got to get a handle, empaths, on this block. So, here's what to do. I'm going to invite you to do a wee little meditation with me. So, close your eyes down when you're ready and take a nice deep breath. Breathing out. And I want you to imagine that there is a plug at the bottom of your feet. And on the exhale, your next exhale, I want you to pull out the plug.
Now let anything and everything that is not yours drain out of your body and into the earth. All of this energy is going to transmute, transform, and transcend and turn into beautiful energy and light. It's going to be neutralized. It's actually going to feed the earth. So don't feel bad about the earth. I know what you're like, empath. Breathing in deeply.
And as you breathe out your mouth, let it all go, go, go, go, go. And now we're going to reverse. We want to fill up with light. So visualise a beautiful white light coming from the earth up your feet, filling up your ankles, your legs, your torso, your arms, your chest, your neck, your head, and going out the top of your head. Feeling the energy, the vibration expanding out, up, side to side, around and around, in all directions, shining your brightest light. And one last thing before you open your eyes.
Who does this energy truly belong to? Return to source consciousness with love. Beautiful. You can open your eyes. So, there we have it, empaths. There is your hack which can take you literally 1 minute. So do it every day. Do it after you've been with people or in situations. It's very similar to cutting cord ties because you are literally returning back to your own energy which is super important because we don't want to carry other people's energy around.
It's not going to help them and it's definitely not going to help us. Number three is the logical filter which is for the clairaudience. It's all about what we're hearing. It's all about what we're receiving with our receptors. And this is where doubt can come in. So if you are receiving information from spirit or you've got intuitive nudges or you're hearing or feeling or seeing or sensing whatever the clair is that is coming to you and you go to your brain and you go, "Oh, that's random.
That's not spirit. I'm making that up. That's too simple. So that can't be." Well, this is for you. This is all about your clairaudience. The thing about clairaudience you need to know is it's not like someone standing there going, hi Victoria, how are you going, this is your next step. It's not necessarily through the ear that you hear. You can hear with the mind.
You can hear with your senses. There is no logical path when it comes to mediumship. It is about expanding and allowing whatever is coming through. So when the logical filter comes through, you are functioning from the 3D, and we don't want to function from that. We want to function from the 5D and beyond in space where we can receive from the energy of unconditional love. So anyway, what do we do about this logical filter?
Because I've got a funny feeling that you may have this because I know about 99% of the world have this because this is the most conditioned. This fix is called the name whisper. So you ready to practice it with me? What we're going to do is you're going to be quiet. You're going to go into a space of silence, but not only silence, stillness. Yes, this can be a challenge and you may need to practice this over and over.
So, let's practice it right now. Close your eyes down and you're going to go quiet just for 10 seconds. And now you're going to say this. Spirit guide, whisper a name I haven't thought of. Now, don't force this. Just listen. It might come in a nickname, a name, a word that feels like a name, maybe a colour or a sense or a knowing, a feeling that points to someone, maybe like a memory.
Now, here's the thing. Even if you think you made this up, you did not. Clairaudience is interesting. It only comes in when you are out of the logical mind. If you haven't opened your eyes up yet, feel free to open them up. Now, I was doing a reading in a live, where I quite often do evidential mediumship. And here I am reading for someone I've never met before.
And all of a sudden, I'm seeing this grandfather energy just in my mind's eye, as clear as day. And I get a name and the name popped in so strong and I literally said, "I've got this name right now. Does that mean anything to you?" It just popped in like in my mind's eye. It's nearly like I heard it, but I didn't hear it. I didn't hear it externally. And I said to the person who I was reading for, "Does this name make any sense to you?" And she said, "That is the name of the grandfather that you're talking to right now." Now, there is dozens of people watching.
I don't know who this person is. I've never heard from them or seen them in my whole entire life. They live on the other side of the world. They just found me and jumped into a live. How does this work? Faith. It's by trusting the process. It's about getting out of the logical mind. It's about removing that filter and using the logical filter for the things that we really need it for in our everyday human life.
So, I'm really curious what name, sense, feeling, or vision came through for you. Pop it in the chat. Let me know. Number four, of course, the visual doubt. This is the biggest thing. Okay, I always say, if someone saw an angel standing right in front of them, it would only take a few days or even maybe a couple of months or weeks to go, I don't know if I actually saw that.
Maybe it would only take actually a couple of minutes or a few seconds. I don't know. It depends on the person, of course. But I've seen many things, many, many things, and I've doubted many of the things that I've seen. And this is why evidential mediumship is super important, so you can actually put the evidence together, and it creates different neuropathways so you can build your confidence in what you're doing. So visualisation.
Just like with clairaudience, sometimes we're not seeing with our eyes. Now, I had an uncle, and he used to see things with his eyes, and so did my grandma, and so did my nana. I didn't talk to them about it deeply, but they would talk about the time that they saw the person in the garden or at the cow shed waving. There's so many stories I grew up with. So I naturally thought seeing spirit meant with my eyes, and I was totally scared. I didn't want to see spirit with my eyes, because it scared the living daylights out of me.
But the truth is, most people, 99% of people, see through their imagination. They see through their mind's eye. They see through a memory or like I mentioned before, you're at a cafe and you see an older gentleman and you see a glimpse of your granddad or you smell your granddad and then you see a feather. Of course, there's these this buildup of synchronicities that kind of like just plays out into a story into this knowing. It's soft, it's subtle, and you've got to be clear and not loud. It's signals versus noise.
So anyway, let's get into this and see if this is a core psychic block for you. So then we can work on untangling it. The biggest thing that I see with people that have got this block is they tell me that they can't see spirit. So, they're affirming it again and again and again and again and again. And we get used to affirming something. So, we are literally creating the block ourselves.
Now, we can simply change this by saying, "I haven't seen spirit yet or I'm not really sure how I perceive how I see spirit." That can change everything. So, with me and my family who was super psychic and super religious, they given it up to God the whole time. I was like, well, I've missed the gene. I didn't get that DNA strand or whatever. Like, it's just not for me, you know? And then one day I thought, hm, but what if I just perceive in a different way?
What if I see in a different way? What if I am psychic? What if I am gifted? What if I am a medium? And then just that question alone, which is the tool I want to teach you, the question alone can change absolutely everything. But let's anchor this in a little bit deeper, okay? And do the unblocking. So, energetically you can start seeing in a way that you're meant to see.
When we expect to see in like a full vision, a full movie or anything like that, quite often we are disappointed because we were focusing on that, we missed out on the flashes or the symbols, the colour, the tiny impression, the little memory that popped up, these little nuances, the shapes. And I was taught many years ago from a medium that we can be talking to someone doing a reading for them and then all of a sudden we look at the carpet and we see a shape in the carpet. For me, I can look at a picture on the wall and the orange will pop out or a word will pop in or I'll be looking at a page. So, I find the whole room is this visual resource for me to pull from. I don't need cards to read. I can read the room.
Okay, here is the exercise. Close your eyes down now. Take a nice deep breath in. Let all my words roll off you. Let them all dissipate. I want you to look inside your eyelids. You're not trying to imagine anything. You're not manipulating anything. I just want you to look behind your eyelids with your eyes closed and relax. Relax your eyelids a little bit.
Just relax. There's no pressure here. There's no trying to stare up at the third eye and create a migraine or a headache. I just want you to relax and notice what you notice behind your eyelids. You're simply watching a screen. Now, I want you to notice what is the dominant colour that you can see right now. It might be black, blue, red, purple, gold, whatever it is, just notice.
And maybe you ask a question. What colour can I see right now? And now ask spirit this question. Spirit, will you please show me a simple shape? A circle, triangle, line, star, dot. Just watch for a moment. Even if you see something faint, even if you think you're imagining it, this all still counts. The allowance is the art of allowing. Not pushing, not forcing, not manipulating.
Just notice what you notice. Okay? And as soon as you notice that, opening your eyes. Okay? Sometimes getting our mind around the whole manipulation thing of trying to see something can be a little bit of a mind game. I'm really curious what came through for you. Pop it in the chat. Let me know. So, one of the things I used to do when I closed my eyes when I was going into meditation is I started noticing it was like this pulsating coming in and out.
And I started realising that this was happening regularly before I went into a channel or into a deep meditation or a vision or something. It was like a third eye pulsing. So I never expected that to happen every time. I just noticed. I just observed. I was just curious of what was happening. And that is the energy I want you to take forward with clairsentience, clairvoyance, claircognizance, clairaudience.
All of these clairs is just observing, observing the similarities, keeping a diary and going, "Wow, okay. This is something that I noticed, and and then start building up on them by doing these these simple practices." So, I'm curious. What was your number one block out of the four? Was it four, 3, 2, 1? Like, how many did you have? And what do you feel like you unblocked?
Because even if you unblocked one thing or you took one method today, one little simple hack, and apply it to your life, it's going to change the trajectory of your mediumship. So, now you've got these four fixes. We've had the psychic fog, which is the clarity question, the emotional overload, which is the drain and the anchor. The logical filter. So, the name whisper, that was the method for that, and the visual doubt, the screen activation, where you're just simply coming to the back of your eyelids. Four activations in this little training and a whole lot of unblocking.
Please remember that you are the strongest entity in your reality. And to protect yourself is to be in your power. So, make sure that you are doing the self development. You're empowering yourself. You're doing your journaling. You're grounding every single day. Your breathing cuz breath is literally medicine for you. It has been an honour to be here with you today. I cannot wait to support you more on your spiritual journey.


