Signs you’re already communicating with Spirit (and you’re not blocked)

You're not blocked from Spirit. You're just not trusting yourself. In this video, I'm going to share with you why you don't trust yourself and how you can trust yourself going forward. The funny thing about this, or should I say the ironic thing about this is that you're already talking to Spirit. You're already receiving the signs and it's all right in front of you. Welcome to my channel if you have not been here before.

My name is Victoria Bond. I'm a psychic medium and a spiritual empowerment coach. Ninety percent of the people that come to work with me think that there is a block and they want me to unblock it. What do I say to them? You're not blocked. But let's see what gifts you already have and bring them into the light. The biggest problem that we have is that we don't see the things that are already in front of us as valid.

And that is a big problem. We are waiting for a ghost to arrive or a feather to arrive from the sky, but it's going to be a multicolored one and it's going to land right in our hands. Rather than acknowledging that there is a feather on the ground right in front of you from a seagull, we are making it all fantastical when mediumship is actually just kind of normal. We are looking for things instead of acknowledging that the things are right in front of our face. So, welcome to the ordinary day of mediumship.

The reason why it's not your fault is there is a long line of mediums that in the past especially that have wanted us to believe that you have to be born with a gift that you've got to be seeing dead people since you were a child or it has to be in the family line. But the absolute truth is every single person is a medium. The difference is whether you were interested in talking to Spirit or you're interested in spiritual stuff. And if you're not, that's cool, 'cause you can actually put it aside. For me, I was raised Catholic and there was a lot of sacredness and there was a lot of kind of stories, ghost stories, but you kind of like did not go talking about it.

But I knew that my great grandmother and my grandmother and even my mum would have experiences. Experiences like a knock on the door. You'd open the door and no one was there. And then you'd get a phone call saying that a neighbour had passed away or an uncle or whatever. And my family would always say, Oh, they just came to say goodbye. Or what about at the cow shed when my grandma and my uncle were milking the cows and they looked over to the gate and they like, Oh, who was that man standing there?

Oh, it must be granddad. After milking the cows, they go home and they say, What were you doing at the cow shed? And he said, I wasn't there. Next minute they get a phone call saying that my granddad's brother had passed. He was waving goodbye to the cows. You know, there's so many stories that I have and I've grown up with these stories and I thought, Wow, they're amazing. But they were still just ordinary stories. A knock on the door, someone waving goodbye to the cows that he looked familiar. He looked just like my granddad, but it was my granddad's brother. And it's normal.

It's normal things that can be bypassed and not seen as Spirit communication. But the truth is when we stop for a moment and we actually take note of the things that are happening for us every day and the things that have happened to us in the past, we start to realise that Spirit is communicating with us every single day. We wait for things that do not exist or we think that it needs to be bigger than it actually needs to be. But Spirit will talk in our tongue.

Spirit will talk in our frequency. And they'll often come through in dreams. Have you ever dreamed of a loved one that had passed or that has passed? Do you think it was just your subconscious or do you think maybe it's the way that they could connect to you? Because you aren't on, looking for something that doesn't exist. You're actually relaxed and you can allow Spirit to connect with you.

You can even ignore the context of the dream sometimes and just know that who you dreamt about came to see you in a space where you were receptive. You see, Spirit will meet us halfway, but often we are on and we're in a different frequency than they are. So, this is something that I teach called Spirit mode. So, I'm wondering if you can drop into this energy with me right now. Let's do a little practice right now.

Okay, if you're with me, I want you to make sure your feet are on the ground, hands on your heart, and eyes closed. Breath in. Hold. Third eye gaze. And breathe out. But when you're breathing out, I want you to drop your barriers down, down, down, down. Expand from your heart in all directions. Another deep breath. Keep breathing.

Breathe in nice and deep. Fill up the belly. Hold. Third eye gaze. And breathe out your mouth long and slow down down down into relaxation. Don't worry, you're safe, guided, loved, and protected. One more time in your own time. Breathing in nice and deeply. Remember, your hands are on your heart, your eyes are closed, your feet are on the ground.

Third eye gaze at the top of the breath. And as you're breathing out long and slow out your mouth, relaxing deeper into relaxation, relaxing your jaw, relaxing your chest, your belly, relaxing your hips, relaxing your legs, hands, and feet. Relaxation. You can open your eyes now. Staying in the relaxed state. I just want you to keep breathing deeply but at your own pace. Like breathing in for the count of four and out for the count of four, focusing on that breath and just looking around the room and noticing what you notice.

This is a little somatic process, and trust me, it helps so much with your mediumship, because coming into presence is everything. What can you see in your room? I want you to name five things that you can see in the room. And maybe you got a pen and paper and you write those things down. What are five things you can see in the room right now? Jot them down or name them out.

What can you notice? What can you see? Now, I want you to notice how you feel in your body compared to the very beginning of this video, the intro where I'm like, Welcome. How are we? That's a frequency. And now I'm inviting you to come into another frequency. Notice I'm inviting you to look around and notice what you see. And now I want you to notice how you feel in your body.

Maybe you want to close your eyes down for this. Just notice what you can feel in your body. Is there a difference between the beginning and now? And now I want you to close your eyes down one more time and take another nice deep breath. But this time the biggest breath you've had all day. Filling up your belly. Filling it up up up up up up. Hold for a moment.

Notice the pause and breathing out long and slow. Long and slow. Long and slow. And as you're doing this, drop into relaxation. A little bit more. A little bit more. A little bit more. A little bit more. A little bit more.

A little bit more. Beautiful. Open your eyes again if you close them. And what I want you to do now is I want you to tell yourself there's nowhere you need to be right now. Everything's fine. You're okay. You're perfect. You're aligned and everything is happening for you. The self assurance is absolutely everything.

And if you're feeling a little bit anxious cuz you're like, Oh my god, change. The body goes, Change, change, change. Oh, connecting to Spirit. Oh my goodness. The nervous system starts spiking. It starts going, How can I protect myself? You're safe. You are guided. You are loved and protected. And maybe you want to cross over your arms and do this little somatic practice. I am safe. I am guided. I am loved. I am protected.

This is perfect for those of you that have got a little bit of fear of what you're going to see. And this is what people perceive to be a block. It's not a block. It's a choice. What if it wasn't a block? It was a choice. People that come and work with me, it's super interesting, because honestly, five minutes with me mentoring them in mediumship, they realise they're not blocked after all.

They were just simply choosing not to see what was right in front of them. One of my pupils was doing a reading for somebody else in a breakout room on Zoom. I went in there and she said, I am feeling sensations on the left side of my body. I am sensing that there is a female energy there, but honestly I feel blocked. I feel like I can't get anything else. And I said, stop. So I did a pattern interrupt to stop her from spiralling.

And I said, you've been in this room reading for this person for three minutes. You have perceived that there is a spirit around and felt tingles on the left hand side of your body which tells you it is female. Oh my god. Okay, so this is a part of the training. Can we please acknowledge what we can feel? Can we please acknowledge what we are sensing? Can we please bring in some gratitude for what it is that we are already tuning into once we reprogrammed this instead of I need to do better. I'm blocked.

I can't get a name. I can't get the country that the spirit is from, or whatever it is. The moment she was like, Oh my god, I did. I sensed a female Spirit and the tingles on the left hand side of my body and I was only in that room with that person for three minutes. I wasn't even with them in person. She all of a sudden dropped all of these I want to say like protective like barriers that she was holding.

That's why I say drop your barriers so you can be more receptive. And the craziest thing happened. She all of a sudden glowed up and she went, oh my god, I was literally communicating with Spirit. And I said, okay, I'll let you go. Keep going and I'm going to go jump in and do some mentoring into another room on Zoom. So, I went out into another breakout room and there was another girl in there and she said, Oh, hey Vic. I'm perceiving that there is a male here with the person that she was reading for and I'm kind of getting a beard but oh I'm not very good at this.

I'm not really sensing anything else. And I did the same thing. I pattern interrupt. Stop. Stop. She's like what? So I really got her kind of body like breaking that thought pattern, right? I am blocked. I am not good enough.

I never do good enough. I want the whole thing before I'm actually satisfied. And I said, you've been in this room for five minutes and you're perceiving that there is a male, and you are correct, 'cause I could sense it as well. You're perceiving that it's about this age and there's a bed. Don't you think that's amazing? She was like, she did the same thing. All of a sudden, these barriers broke down.

She started glowing up and she went, Oh, I didn't know it was okay for me to celebrate what I was seeing. I just thought I needed to do better. I share this story with you. A very simple story, but I share it with you because often when we see a feather or a butterfly at a perfect time when we were just thinking about our granddad, or we smell cigarette smoke and there's no one around smoking, but it reminds us of somebody in Spirit, or literally we are all of a sudden in a sun shower. It's definitely my favourite with Spirit when I'm in a sun shower and I know that I'm in a rainbow. That's my most favourite thing in the whole entire world. It's so miraculous.

I know Spirit is with me and it's just when I needed some guidance that I was on the right track. We often, probably ten times a day, ignore these signs. And if you stopped for a moment and you brought yourself into the moment, like I said, looking around the room and literally noticing five things. If you did this, you would actually realise that spirit is trying to communicate with you right then and there, but you're waiting for something to literally call out from the clouds.

You're waiting for the dream for the grandmother to sit down and go, So, tell me about it. How's life going since I left Victoria? I want to know all about it. Instead of actually acknowledging that they came to visit, Spirit usually has two things that they want to share with you most of the time. I love you and I'm okay. But as mediums, what we're wanting to do is we're wanting to give them this profound message of you're going to marry this person, you're going to do this, you're going to do this, you should do this, you should do that.

Oh, I'm going to give you this. And it's like so Hollywood. You are a medium if you so choose to be. You can totally ignore it and you can totally carry on. And that is the beauty about being human. We get to put our focus onto something, put our energy into something and let that blossom. It is a skill set. You can run. Everyone can run.

Most people can run, right? Or walk. Most people can. But to be a marathon runner, and I know because I train most days for running. I'm not great at it, but I train. And a lot of people, they don't see me training. Actually, no one sees me training. I might only train like three times a week most of the time and then I up it before I get to a half marathon. Right?

Basically, there's a whole system of practice of training and then people come on the day and they're cheering you on and they see you running on the day, but they don't see all the practice you put in. To be a medium to get rid of this whole blocked thing. Stop bypassing this stuff. Maybe stop pretending that you're blocked and realise that there's nothing blocked about you.

You just need to hone in to the skill set. You need to practice. You need to acknowledge. So when you are in the sun shower, you can say, I've been actually really wanting some guidance. What guidance do you have for me? I can hear you. I can feel you. I can sense you. I know that you're here because you brought me the sign of a sun shower.

What do you have for me today? Should I get out my pen and paper? Should I go into meditation? What would you like me to do to tune into you? And you will receive the answer. It might be stop, be present. It might be go for a walk, which is more like an active meditation. Maybe it's literally go ground and stand outside and open up your energy and see what comes through.

But the biggest thing is notice what you notice right now. We get so attuned to watching TV and how all of the famous mediums do it or psychics or channelers instead of realising we're seeing their marathon. We are seeing the crux of what they do. We're seeing it all. But every day they're doing specific things. They're training themselves. They're tuning into a skill set that you already have.

Now, if I try to run half a marathon and I've done no training, I might be able to do it, but it will take me out. But when I tune in and when I work with my body, when I go to a particular frequency, I build up, I grow, I expand, I align, everything becomes effortless. So, a little story. When I was first waking up and realising all of this stuff, I was like, Okay, I had a piece of paper and a pen and I was like, okay, I just want to know what is going on. What do I believe that no one has told me? I wrote this down and I had nothing.

I even wrote down Jesus and then I crossed it out. I was like, but I was told that. So, what do I really know? I decided I was going to start absolutely fresh, blank page. What do I know that no one has ever told me? I'm going to open up my energy, my channel, and I'm going to take note of the dreams, of the looping songs, of the feathers, of the butterflies.

Sometimes it's just a feather, my friends. But after my run, when I was talking to my friend about a dear friend of mine who had passed away, I was really sad about it and I was talking about her. There was a feather right there where we were stretching after our run right there fresh and it was like first thing in the morning everything was wet but this feather wasn't and it was one of those little kind of fluffy white feathers that of which I attuned to angels. My friend was such a beautiful angel and she was with me at the very beginning of my waking up. Isn't that interesting?

Sometimes a feather is just a feather and sometimes a feather is a sign. That was a sign. She brought me a feather. I stopped for a moment and I let that anchor in. But going back to the very start of my awakening or remembrance, I would rather say, I saw signs everywhere all the time. And I'd always say, Give me another one. Give me another one. Give me another one.

Give me another one. Just like, give me another card. Give me another card. Give me another card till the one I'm satisfied with. And Spirit was like, you have to trust us like we trust you. So, here's what you do. If you're like me and you want another sign, another sign, another sign, another sign. I want more evidence and more evidence and more evidence. That's what we're saying when we're saying we're blocked, because we're not acknowledging all of the smorgasbord of signs around us.

So what you do is you say, there's a feather, just like I did. Is this feather from Spirit or is this just a feather? The way you notice is the feeling within your body. So when I saw the feather I said, that is a feather. Is this feather from my friend or is this just a feather? And I felt this expansion from my heart outward. She sent me that feather.

And then I felt immense gratitude and joy because for Spirit to bring me a feather is so profound. We do not even acknowledge how hard they had to work to get us that feather. And here we are just asking for another one. Spirit wants us to be present, to be in what it is that we're in, which means being here in the now, being grounded. And this is why I always say feet on the ground, closing the eyes, so we're not all over the show.

Hand on the heart so we're touching the body and tuning into the breath. It brings us into groundedness. And I just love the saying to know Spirit is to know self. People come into my programs and they're like, Whoa, there's a lot of personal development. Whoa, I'm diving into my shadow self. Whoa, I'm diving into me. Whoa, I'm looking in the mirror. And I'm like, yeah, 'cause Spirit's internal. And everything we see external is only seen when we're in, not when we're out.

If you're looking for validation outward, if you're looking for external for Spirit, you're not going to see it because even when we do see Spirit, it is literally like a projector coming from our third eye coming outward. So, it's like the vision that you're seeing is in your head most of the time. Yes, my great uncle was waving and yes, the cows saw him and so did my grandma and so did my uncle. So yes, sometimes we can see with our eyes but not that often. Mostly it is an internal clairvoyance.

And this is why I say when we're coming in, we close our eyes and when we are wanting to be present and when we want to notice the signs and the synchronicities and talk to Spirit, we start looking at things and naming things. We are tuning our clairvoyance. We are tuning our eyes so we are not all over the show and just going into our imagination. When I first started this, I stopped looking outward and I started looking at me and what was already around me. And this is why I say you don't need another reading.

You don't even need another course. You do not need to have a certification. But to be a medium, you just need to start. To be a medium, you just need to notice. You just need to come inward and you need to stop validating yourself by saying, I am blocked. I'm not good at this. Just like my two clients, I'm blocked. I'm not good at this. I go, Stop.

Transmute, transform, transcend, cancel, clear, delete. Okay? I'm like, throw it all at them. Let's reprogram you. Because all of those mediums that are like, We are mediums and we have the gift and honestly, we're the minority. No, the majority has the gift. So, how are you feeling right now? And this is what I do in my programs. I literally go, do you know that if you want to dive into your mediumship abilities, you can?

Did you know if you want to manifest anything, you can? Did you know that you are intuitive? And did you know you are not blocked? You just learned to live in a different way and you believed that people that told you that you weren't gifted and they're everywhere telling you that. Between the ages of like five and eight, I believe it is, we literally shut down the psychic abilities and we tune into the ABCs and the 123s.

We are watching mum and dad and their reactions to the things that we're saying even if they're not telling us. We are watching the adults from our friends, peers, our aunties and uncles, our grandparents and our school teachers to see what is acceptable and not. We are basically body language experts. We listen to tones. We are watching faces and facial expressions. We are experts of survival because we were pretty useless without those older human beings.

We fit into the tribe and we make it work. So it's not your fault, but it is absolutely your responsibility. If you are interested to acknowledge that you are not blocked, rewrite the script and say, I am a psychic medium. I see Spirit. I get names. I can tune in. I am constantly attuning to the frequency of Spirit and I am working on my skill set just like me saying I am a runner.

I am an author. I'm doing the things to be these things and to be better at each and every time that I am practicing and tuning in. I can't turn around and say I did a dumb job of writing today. I did a dumb job of running today. Because I know that I'm stretching muscles. Every time you go to the gym, if you say, Oh, that was such a bad workout.

I'm so not good. Then you wouldn't go back. So, our mediumship is just like that. It's like today I'm going to focus on my clairvoyance. And that's what we did today is focusing on what can I see with my eyes? I'm naming it. What am I sensing within my body? Am I noticing tingles? What are you noticing right now? Clear sentience.

What am I noticing right now? Just like my client sensing all of the tingles and she was like, It's on my left hand side and I know that female's come through on the left side for me. Therefore, there's a female here. That's amazing. In 3 minutes, what would happen if she had like 90 minutes, right? This is what I do is I help to train them in a very short amount of time by putting some pressure on.

I'm like, Come on, let's go. Let's go. I picked up the mistaken belief, changed it around, and then next minute she's like, what? Gratitude? Wow. What if that was for you right now? What are you grateful for? What can you see with your eyes? What can you be grateful for with the seeing of your eyes? Maybe it's the things that you have around you. Maybe it's colours.

Maybe it is being able to watch this screen right now and learn. What are you grateful for for what you are seeing right now? Not for what you're not seeing, but for what you are seeing. See what I'm getting at? Focusing on the good. What are you sensing? Tingling, maybe the clothes on your skin. Maybe it's spiritual, maybe it's just practical.

What do you know about you? If you are still watching this, you've got to know that you're interested in mediumship. You got to know that you are wanting to learn and you're wanting to attune that skill which is exactly why you're here. What do you sense with your ears? What can you hear? What can you be grateful for with what you're hearing? This might sound kind of crazy, but if to know Spirit is to know yourself, does that not mean the ordinary every single day stuff is the stuff that you should be focusing on, the practical, the no fluff, the human spiritual bypassing is when people go, Oh my god, I'm just so normal.

I'm just so human. I want to be more woo woo. Don't bypass the human, 'cause that is where the mediumship lives. The humbleness and the power that you hold creates the deepest alignment. And this is something I found out when all of these signs were coming to me and I realised this isn't nothing. This isn't just little breadcrumbs. This is golden boulders. This is massive. Just like my clients.

That is massive that you're perceiving Spirit. That is massive that you got the gender. That is massive that you got the age. Oh my gosh. Guess what that does? When you are grateful for yourself and your senses and your clairs and everything about you, it opens up your heart. You become receptive and you get to receive more and more and more and more in whatever area you're focusing on.

Okay, I'm going to leave that there. This has been a reprogramming of the subconscious as well as a tuning into your inner psychic. This, my friend, is a perfect training to unblock those mistaken beliefs of being blocked because you are not. The amount of people that come to me and say, I cannot see. It is like a whole thing. I am blocked. After a couple of sessions, they were like, I saw this and I saw this and I saw this.

And I'm like, yeah, cuz you were never blocked. It was just perceived to be blocked. So what happens if you start believing that you can see? You start believing you're in tune. You start believing that you're a medium. You become it. It has been so amazing being here with you today. Thank you for letting me express all of this. I know so many of you have got this mistaken belief that you're blocked.

The only way through is through. Courage is not the absence of fear, they say. So take a step in the right direction and by being here today you certainly have.