Feathers, songs and dreams: is it a sign from Spirit or a coincidence?
Victoria shows why Spirit comes through subtly, the three ways you feel it, and how to tell when a feather, a song or a dream is a sign. Then a guided practice to open the door and receive a message.
- 3 signsthe feather, the song and the dream
- 15 minfree lesson
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Try this first
A few minutes, eyes closed, if it's safe to. This is the practice Victoria guides at 9:32 in the video.
- Ground and fill with light.
Feel your feet anchored into the ground.
Picture golden roots from your feet into the earth, then white light filling your body and your aura. - Open the door.
Open that door and ask one spirit to step through.
Ask only for a spirit aligned with the highest vibrations, in the name of love. - Notice what you notice.
It doesn't have to make any sense.
A thought, a memory, a name, a feeling, numbers, colours or shapes. If it gets too fast, ask Spirit to slow down. Then close the door and come back.
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Tap every sign you’ve had
Each of these comes up in this video. Tick the ones that feel familiar.
Tap the ones that feel familiar.
“You are already a medium, already a channel, already an intuitive being.”
In her own words
“Spirit comes through subtly, and of course, I'm going to share with you the main signs of how they come through and how you can interpret that, because it's already happening to you.”
“It doesn't matter where the feather came from. That was the only thing on the carpet. I knew that was a sign because I had just asked a question.”
“Sometimes dreams are the subconscious, and sometimes they are visitations. Usually there's an emotion connected. Usually there's a physicality, and usually there's a mental memory or a connection when somebody validates that through a conversation.”
Questions this video answers
How do I know if a feather is a sign from Spirit?
If you see a feather, sometimes it's just a feather. Sometimes it's a feather, and you know that it's a sign because you just asked a question, or maybe you asked a question yesterday, or maybe in your heart you have that question, or maybe you're needing a little bit of guidance. It doesn't matter where the feather came from. I knew that was a sign because I had just asked a question.
Can a song be a sign from a loved one in Spirit?
Is a song just a song, or is a song a song? This is when we have to look at those signs. Was there an emotion connected? Was there a knowing connected? Was there a memory, a thought, or a person, or a name connected? And it doesn't necessarily have to be connected to another person in spirit. It can be your guides, your higher self giving you a message.
Is it a dream or a visitation?
Sometimes dreams are the subconscious, and sometimes they are visitations. Usually there's an emotion connected. Usually there's a physicality, and usually there's a mental memory or a connection when somebody validates that through a conversation. That would mean someone said, hey, I thought about Grandad the other day, and you literally dreamed about him last night.
Why am I not getting signs from Spirit?
There's reasons why we don't get the signs, and it's very simple. You're looking in the wrong places, the wrong voice, the wrong sign, the wrong numbers. Maybe you're expecting a big feather rather than just a little simple sparrow feather. Maybe all of these subtleties are spirit, and maybe you've been looking and waiting in a wrong way.
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What makes it a sign is the question you asked, not the feather itself
The dream that wasn't a dream
I remember running up to my grandad. All of a sudden, I'm eight years old again in my dream. I run up to him and I jump in his lap, and he's rocking me on his rocking chair.
And I said, "Grandad, I don't want to go." And he goes, "You've got to go. You can always come back." And I said, "But I don't want to go because this is a dream, and I know that I'm not going to be able to just access you again." And he said, "Victoria, I'm always here." I woke up and I felt sad because I knew that was my grandad, and it made me realise how much I missed him.
“Was it a dream? No. It was a visitation in a familiar place on his rocking chair.”
And he told me, "I will always be here to calm you whenever you feel distressed." There's been many times in my life where I've needed my grandad's support. I've felt really low, or I felt like I needed support, or I felt really disconnected from whatever I was going through.
And I feel myself rocking, and I feel myself going back to that eight year old girl sitting on my grandad's knee from that dream state visitation that I had.
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It happened again, didn't it? That small thing. Maybe you stopped to catch your breath on a walk and you noticed the feather right in front of you. That song comes on again, the song that's reminded you of your friend that passed many, many years ago. It's subtle. It's so small that you think it is your mind. You think it's a memory or you think it's a coincidence. Well, in this video, I'm going to share with you how it's not a coincidence, and how in fact it is more powerful than you've ever thought possible.
Hello and welcome. If this is your first time to my channel, my name is Victoria Bond. I'm a psychic medium, a spiritual empowerment coach, and I love to educate people on mediumship.
What most mediums will not tell you is that spirit is coming through subtly. They don't come in this grand entrance. They're not coming in to catch you up on everything they've been doing for however long they've been passed, or the structure and strategy for your life, giving you the lotto numbers or anything massively dramatic. That's not how spirit works. Spirit comes through subtly, and of course, I'm going to share with you the main signs of how they come through and how you can interpret that, because it's already happening to you.
So let me share these three evidential mediumship signs. The first one is emotional. You're going to feel it in your body, in your emotions. This is why to know spirit is to know self. To be in your body is so important when it comes to mediumship. You might feel hairs prickling on your hands, on your feet, on the back of your neck, or even on your arms. You might feel like, oh, all of a sudden I had this emotional feeling come over me, like a sadness or a happiness.
The second one is the physical: the feather, the song, the song that comes on the radio. There's going to be a physical sign. Honey, this is evidential mediumship. This is what the mediums are doing. But of course, they're doing it turned up because they're practicing all day every day. This is how you become the medium you truly want to be, by noticing what is already happening.
And the third one is mental. Maybe it's a memory. Maybe it's a dream. Maybe you're having a conversation with another person about this person that has passed away. So we've got the emotional, the physical, and the mental. This is all evidential mediumship.
First of all, I just want to tell you there's reasons why we do not hear spirit, reasons why we don't get this evidence, reasons why we don't get the signs, and it's very simple. You're looking in the wrong places, the wrong voice, the wrong sign, the wrong numbers. If you are waiting for a certain number and then a 777 appears rather than a 111, maybe you're missing that it's actually meant to be the 777 you're looking at.
Maybe you're expecting a big feather rather than just a little simple sparrow feather. And maybe you're like, well, that can't be a sign because it's not big enough or bold enough or unique enough. Maybe you're expecting the voice to be this kind of God like voice, coming from the clouds, very dramatic. Or maybe you're expecting the voice to be in the voice of the spirit that has passed rather than your own voice. Maybe you're expecting your dreams to be colourful and bright to give you full blown evidence, but you don't really remember them. You just kind of wake up with a residue of this warm heart and the person that you dreamt of.
Maybe all of these subtleties are spirit, and maybe you've been looking and waiting in a wrong way. So this is your invitation to shift your perspective just by 1%, even the tiniest bit.
One, the feather. Only two days ago I asked my guides for a sign to make sure I was on the right track. We often do this, right? I literally look over within one minute, and there is a feather, a little light fluffy feather on the carpet. Could that feather have come from a pillow? Absolutely. It might have even come from my puffer jacket. That is beside the point. It doesn't matter where the feather came from. That was the only thing on the carpet. I knew that was a sign because I had just asked a question.
So if you see a feather, sometimes it's just a feather. Sometimes it's a feather, and you know that it's a sign because you just asked a question, or maybe you asked a question yesterday, or maybe in your heart you have that question, or maybe you're needing a little bit of guidance. So you just need to ask the question: is this a feather, or is this a feather that has a sign and a guide connected to it, or someone that I love in spirit?
The second one is a song. Is a song just a song, or is a song a song? This is when we have to look at those signs. Was there an emotion connected? Was there a knowing connected? Was there a memory, a thought, or a person, or a name connected? Now, I hear songs all the time. Adele has got a lot of resonance with me with spirit. And sometimes I'm just like, oh, this is just a song. Sometimes I'm like, oh my goodness, and I start feeling the goosebumps on the back of my neck, on my arms. I start feeling the emotions. I start visualising the name or the person or the situation. So you get what I'm saying. Is it a song, or is it a song? Songs are very powerful.
And it doesn't necessarily have to be connected to another person in spirit. It can be connected to you. It can be your guides, your higher self giving you a message, depending on whatever question you have been asking.
The third one is the dream. Yes, we are spirit with a body, and there are spirit that don't have a body, and these are our loved ones that have passed away, of course. Now, if you are dreaming, often our subconscious comes in, and that's why our dreams can be warped and weird and colourful and wonderful and just out of the gate strange. But of course, there is always truth within a dream, within the feeling that we have while we are in the dream.
Now, I had a dream once about my Mum, and I love my Mum. She is a wonderful person. She is light and bubbly and beautiful, and she brought me up in the sacredness of the Catholic Church, and I love prayer and I love Christ consciousness itself. In the dream I was lying down and she was sitting there telling me how proud she was of me, of all the work that I was doing with spirit. I didn't believe it when I was in the dream. And I said, "Mum, you would never tell me this." And she said, "I'm telling you now, this is not a dream, I promise."
I looked around within the dream and I noticed that the curtains were a little bit crooked. I noticed that my eye mask was on crooked, and I noticed that the blankets were all crooked. It was five in the morning or something. I was in dream state. And when I woke up out of the dream, I had this sinking feeling, and I felt emotion and I wanted to cry because I realised that it was a dream, until I remembered what she said in the dream: "I promise you this is not a dream. I am proud of you, and I've come to tell you this."
Now, when I told my Mum, of course, she was like, oh, that's so funny, that didn't happen. What did I do in your dream? And she kind of dismissed it because of course it was my dream and she doesn't remember it. It was her higher self. And I just had to hold that in my heart, that I can actually connect with my loved ones that still have bodies.
And then we have the dreams about our grandparents. I remember running up to my grandad. All of a sudden, I'm eight years old again in my dream. I run up to him and I jump in his lap, and he's rocking me on his rocking chair. And I said, "Grandad, I don't want to go." And he goes, "You've got to go. You can always come back." And I said, "But I don't want to go because this is a dream, and I know that I'm not going to be able to just access you again." And he said, "Victoria, I'm always here." I woke up and I felt sad because I knew that was my grandad, and it made me realise how much I missed him.
Was it a dream? No. It was a visitation in a familiar place on his rocking chair. And he told me, "I will always be here to calm you whenever you feel distressed." There's been many times in my life where I've needed my grandad's support. I've felt really low, or I felt like I needed support, or I felt really disconnected from whatever I was going through. And I feel myself rocking, and I feel myself going back to that eight year old girl sitting on my grandad's knee from that dream state visitation that I had.
Sometimes dreams are the subconscious, and sometimes they are visitations. You know what that is because remember what I said? Usually there's an emotion connected. Usually there's a physicality, and usually there's a mental memory or a connection when somebody validates that through a conversation. That would mean someone said, hey, I thought about Grandad the other day, and you literally dreamed about him last night.
So when we realise that these subtleties aren't so subtle, it's just a perspective shift. Rather than waiting for the big bang and the drama and something massive to happen, like the apparition of someone standing in front of you talking, or God speaking to you from the clouds, we realise it's subtle. It can be a song. It can be a feather or a dream. And we come inward. Remember, this is an inside job. To know spirit is to know self. Our whole world transforms. We start seeing the numbers and the signs and the synchronicities, and we start piecing them together.
So I invite you now to take a moment and close your eyes. Feel your feet anchored into the ground, bringing these golden roots from your feet into the earth, wrapping around your most favourite crystal. Visualising a white light surrounding your body, coming into your body, and coming out from your heart until your body is a bright white light. Connecting into your light body. Breathing in a white light, and as you breathe out, expanding that white light beyond your body and into your aura until you are in a white light cocoon. Beautiful.
And now I want you to visualise there is a door in front of you. Open that door and ask one spirit to step through, a spirit that is only aligned with the highest vibrations, highest frequencies of the true white light, in the name of love. Now notice what you notice. Can you see a spirit? Sense a spirit? Or do you just know that there is a spirit there? Now, if you're feeling a little bit overwhelmed or under pressure, just know you can come back to this at any time, and just know that spirit is here with you, and there is no emergency. You can always pause this video and give yourself some more time.
There is a spirit in front of you, and they have a message for you. Now, I invite you over the next couple of minutes to tune into whatever is coming through. Is there a thought? A memory? A name? Or a sensing of an emotion within your body? Be open to allow any images to come through. It doesn't have to make any sense. There could be numbers, colours, shapes. And if it gets too fast for you, ask Spirit to slow down, and allow yourself to surrender to what is coming through. Spirit is fast. You can ask Spirit to slow down, and let your wildest imagination play.
And now gently, gently bringing yourself back. Noticing that you are within your body, and your body is within you. Noticing the beautiful white light aura around you. Closing the door that is in front of you, and knowing that you can come back at any time. Wriggling your fingers and your toes, feeling your feet on the ground, and when you're ready, opening your eyes.
Welcome back. I'm curious what came through for you. Now, if you feel like you didn't get a lot today, that's okay. Maybe you can come back and do this. In fact, I honestly advise you to do this every single day. So you can save this video and do it with me, or of course, you can do this on your own.
I have had so much fun today talking about evidential mediumship, and talking about signs, and talking about how you are already a medium, already a channel, already an intuitive being. You are spirit, and spirit is you. Thank you for being here. I would love to know what resonated with you, so feel free to share in the comments.


