How to communicate with spirits, one spirit and one question at a time

To be a medium, you really have to understand how to create the sacred spaces, how to clear energy, how to understand your clairs. You have to understand how to ask questions, and you have to understand how to communicate. So what I want to share with you is this: you are Spirit embodied into a human. You're human, you are Spirit, and when you're communicating with other spirits with no bodies, this is when we are going into this 5D energy, this fifth dimension. They're right here next to us, we just can't see them. They have no bodies, and technically they're in a different dimension, so we must tune in. This is where the clairaudience comes in, because you're tuning into that frequency.

But you need to understand there's no hierarchy here on planet Earth, within the humans or within the spirit world. What I mean by that is, if you have been brought up to put adults, or people with more money and more status, on pedestals, then you may also believe that spirits and angels and spirit guides are on pedestals as well, that they are higher in the ranks than you are. This is not true, because technically you are just kind of lucky to have a body. You're here having an experience on planet Earth. So I really want you to understand that you're the strongest entity in your reality. It's something that in the Magnificent Mediumship certification I am continuously saying, thousands of times: you're the strongest entity in your reality, which means that nothing can hurt you. Nothing is stronger than you, because you are powerful within your own rights.

So when we're communicating with Spirit and we're tuning in, we've created our sacred space and all the things, it is really important to ask the questions. I visualise I'm in a room, and I ask all spirits to stand out, and I just visualise opening a door and asking one Spirit to step in. This is something that I practice in my programs as well, but this is something you can do and practice yourself at home, because practice of communication is key to mediumship and mastering it: communication with the humans and communication with Spirit.

So I like to visualise I'm in a room. I say, yep, next, come in, open the door, and I only ask for one Spirit to come through. Then I ask some very specific questions, and I go with my yes or my no. What do I feel with that? I usually have a pen and paper, and I write what I'm feeling. Are you here to communicate with who I'm reading for? Or maybe you're just practicing on yourself, so, are you here to communicate with me? I'll get a yes or a no. The next question is, are you here to support me? Maybe it's a spirit guide who's coming to support you on your quest of being a medium and practicing. Maybe it's like a Nana that's come in to support you, because she's a part of your spirit team, and she's like, I'm just here to be your cheerleader.

Another question is, do you have messages that you want me to deliver? When you get an understanding of your yeses and nos, which is what we went through with the questions in the last video, then you can start asking these questions. Then I'd say, what is it you would like to tell me? And this is where it gets really cool, because I sit there and I go, okay, Spirit, slow down, and I'm going to speed up, hit me. I turn on all my clairs. I expand, and I expand, and I expand, and I go, help me with what you need me to know. It doesn't matter if it's 30 seconds or 30 minutes, everyone's different, but I receive the information and I write it down.

Most of the time it makes no sense. But to the person I'm reading for, or to me when I sit down with it, it's like puzzle pieces everywhere, and I start bringing it in together. Or I go about my day and I start seeing signs and synchronicities, or talking to people, or these phone calls or books, or whatever it is. It all comes together, and it weaves absolutely beautifully into a story. So this is why communication with Spirit is very, very important.

It's very important to understand that you are Spirit, you just don't have a body, and that there is no hierarchy system. Spirit guides, spirit teams, angels, ancestors that came before us: yes, we can have a respect for them, but when we start putting other beings and Spirit on a pedestal, it creates this us or them mentality, which means we feel separated. This is why people aren't walking around just talking to dead people, because they think that there is a separation. So yes, there's a difference: we are solid and they are not. But when we tap into our senses and remember who we are, and we start to communicate in a way that is viable for both parties, if you will, in the different dimensions, we can find that sweet point, and this is where the mediumship becomes normal.

I like to see mediumship as absolutely a normal process. As a sensitive being, as a human, as a clear channel, everything that I've shown you in these videos so far is something for you to attune into and strengthen. So communicate, and do this often. Make sure you've got great communication with the humans around you. Make sure you don't see anybody else on a pedestal, higher than you, or lower than you for that matter. And knowing how to hold your standards, to hold your boundaries, to know what you're available for energetically, is an absolute crucial part of mediumship mastery as well.

Because the last thing that you want is to be available 24/7 for spirits, and waking up in the middle of the night to a spirit standing there, or feeling that there's something there, and going, I'm trying to sleep, why are you here? This has happened to me. Even though I've got very good standards and boundaries, I have had Spirit step into my bedroom and really try to talk to me, and I said, get out of my room. I'm not okay with this. I will come to you and I will talk to you when I'm available, when I have my own Spirit time and my own devotion practice, but until then you can go away now.

We can have stronger boundaries. Other times, if I feel my Nan or my Grandad around, and I know that they're just here to be a contribution, to support me, I'm like, hello, thank you for being here, I'm going to sleep now, sending you love. You start really attuning into what is energetically correct. We can ask them if they want to communicate, or if they want to support us, and then we don't need to make a big deal about these things. It just becomes an everyday occurrence for you.

So what has been your biggest aha? What has been the thing that you've remembered during this training? One thing I have learned, and I repeat this all the time, is that to be human and to be Spirit is actually to be a medium. It's not about knowing all the clairs, it's not about the knowledge that you know. It's actually about applying it, it's actually about practicing it, it's actually about getting support with it and being with a vibe tribe that understands. For me it was having mentors that could understand and help me strengthen my own abilities, to see the gaps that I have, because we do have unconsciousness within us. We have been programmed very profusely in our life, and when we start doing the deconditioning in our life, having people there to support you, whether it's a coach or a friend or a program, can be absolutely beneficial for your practice and for your communication with Spirit.