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“You do not need another sign.”

How to receive messages from your spirit guides: ask, feel, choose

Why your imagination is the key to your gifts, the three steps Victoria uses every day to live a Spirit led life, and a guided golden light activation. Her practice, free to watch right here.

  • Victoria Bond
  • Free video lesson
  • Full transcript below
  • 2,700+views on YouTube
  • 35 minlesson and activation
  • 3steps: ask, feel, choose
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One minute, first thing in the morning. Victoria’s three steps for a Spirit led day.

  1. Ask.What would you have me do today? Spirit, guide me. Ask your guides, your Spirit team and your ancestors of the highest light.
  2. Feel.Trusting what you get. Notice whether each nudge feels correct for you or not. If it drains you, it is not aligned.
  3. Choose.Truth over fear. Take the step that feels good in your heart, even if it is a little bit scary.

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“You’ve always been intuitive. You’ve always been psychic. You’ve always been creative.”
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What people say after watching

Thank you for making this video . I needed this . This is what I needed to hear. I’m ready to open up
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I am grateful for your guidance 🙏 ✨️ ❤️ I know I have the gift but unsure how to use it and I believe your teachings are what I've needed.
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I am new to your channel and this is the 2nd video I have watched of yours, both times I have "seen" in my mind during the meditation which is lovely, as sometimes it can be hit and miss.
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During this meditation at the end, I was seeing a lot of purple and gold very vividly.
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I started sneezing, then I had a tone in my left ear.
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In her own words

“The truth is, you’ve had a great imagination and you still do. You have intuitive insights. You feel things within your body. You’ve got gut instinct.”
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“99% of what you say will not make sense to you, but it will make sense to the person that you’re saying it to.”
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“Living a Spirit led life means trusting your nudges, honouring your energy, and taking action upon what feels energetically correct for you.”
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Questions this video answers

How do I connect with my spirit guides every day?

The first one is ask Spirit, what would you have me do today? I always ask my Spirit guides, my Spirit team, and literally the Spirits that are around me, my ancestors. Spirit, guide me. Give me some signs and synchronicities. I will ask questions from Spirit. And then I go into the second one, which is feeling. Trusting what you get. And then we’ve got choose.

Do you have to hear voices to be a medium?

Here’s a truth that most people won’t tell you. You don’t have to hear loud voices to be a medium and to acknowledge that you’re gifted. You don’t have to be woo woo or witchy or going to a spiritual church or playing on tarot cards to be Spirit led and to be intuitive. So we don’t need to be talking to dead people to be mediums and to give guidance.

Why did I lose my intuition as I grew up?

So many of us grow up being told to doubt ourselves. And this is what we call conditioning. As we grow up, we feel like a lot of that creativity just kind of dulls down. And it does. We turn it down on purpose and we favour the intellect. And it’s totally not your fault. But it is your responsibility to turn back up the creativity and to bring your intuitive insights out in a way that feels good for you.

What do I do with messages from Spirit for other people?

People come to me and go, I’ve got all these messages for all of these people. What do I do with it? Now, just because Mary’s mother is saying, hey, go and tell Mary that I’m here and I’ve got a message for her, doesn’t mean that you need to ring up Mary and go, I’ve got your mother here. We need to know how to filter that out. We must feel into what that means.

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“You can’t go wrong if you ask, feel, and choose.”

Victoria’s simple daily practice for a Spirit led life

Ask, feel, and choose

Three simple ways that you can live a Spirit led life daily. The first one is ask Spirit, what would you have me do today? Of course, I ask them, what would you have me do today? Spirit, guide me. Give me some signs and synchronicities.

And then I go into the second one, which is feeling. Trusting what you get. Trusting the feelings that you are getting, with if something is correct for you or not. Because Spirit might give you literally a smorgasbord of ideas. They might even give you a whole lot of different messages to give to different people. But you’ve got to feel into that.

You get to feel before you force. If it drains you, it is not aligned. Your energy is your guidance system.

“The thing that you’re the most afraid to say is usually the thing that you should say.”
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So we’ve got ask, we’ve got feel, and then we’ve got choose. Now, choosing is just as important as the first two, because you have free will. And here is the thing I want to tell you. Truth over fear. Communication with Spirit and activating our gifts should be easy. But fear comes in.

We want to be able to ask. We want to be able to feel. And we want to be able to choose. This is how we live a Spirit led life. Taking radical responsibility for our choices, making sure we are asking for contributions and feeling into our gut knowing.

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It is time to activate the gifts that are already within you. You do not need another sign. You’ve seen the signs, the synchronicities, you’ve heard the whispers, and maybe you’ve even tapped into Spirit. But we’re always looking for another sign. And in this video, I’m going to share with you how to activate all the gifts within you and have a Spirit led life.

Too many people think that we have to be this bigwig psychic mediums or be doing tarot and oracle or to be woo woo and spiritual to have a Spirit led life. And it’s just simply not true. Everyone can activate their gifts from within them. And this is going to be your portal to do that. In this video, I’m going to help you claim your psychic gifts and to apply them to your everyday life.

The activation is going to be amazing. And it reminds me of my friend Katie. So, I have this beautiful friend Katie and she said to me, "Victoria, I know I’m intuitive, but I really don’t think I have any psychic gifts." So, I invited her to come into Magnificent Mediumship. She did and within a couple of weeks she was literally channelling talking to her nana who had passed away not long before, and she was doing readings for the whole group within a few weeks she was able to have the confidence to bring forward her gifts that were already within her I didn’t teach her mediumship I helped her to see the gifts within that there was so profound for me and the truth is if her nana was there because I could see her nana through the whole entire program and she was able to connect to her nana too which meant so much.

As mediums we are here to bridge the gap between those that are on the planet and those that have left the planet to give intuitive insights and literally guidance. I can’t wait to dive deeper into this with you. I’m going to give you some epic knowledge as well as a beautiful guided meditation so you can start unlocking those gifts and applying them to your life. So, let’s get into it. So many of us grow up being told to doubt ourselves.

Whether this is verbal or whether this is projections that we’re feeling from others, it is everywhere. And this is what we call conditioning. But the truth is, you’ve had a great imagination and you still do. You have intuitive insights. You feel things within your body.

You’ve got gut instinct. And we’ve got this great imagination. And the imagination is the key to the gifts that are within you. So, I’m going to invite you to unlock what it means to be psychic and intuitive. And just like my friend Katie who said, "I know I’m intuitive, but I don’t think I’m psychic.

I don’t think I’ve got what it takes." She came into Magnificent Mediumship and within a couple of weeks she is literally doing readings for everybody. It was mindblowing and the advice that she was giving, the guidance was changing lives right before our very eyes. And you have the ability to do this as well. You’ve always been intuitive. You’ve always been psychic.

You’ve always been creative. And as we grow up, we feel like a lot of that creativity just kind of like dulls down. And it does. We turn it down on purpose and we favour the intellect. And it’s totally not your fault.

But it is your responsibility to turn back up the creativity and to bring your intuitive insights out in a way that feels good for you so you can live your life in a more Spirit led way. Here’s a truth that most people won’t tell you. You don’t have to hear loud voices to be a medium and to acknowledge that you’re gifted. You don’t have to be woo woo or witchy or going to a spiritual church or playing on tarot cards to be Spirit led and to be intuitive. And these are definitely some of the conditions that are put on us.

Like she doesn’t look like she’s woo woo or a hippie or so how would she be a psychic medium? So we don’t need to be talking to dead people to be mediums and to give guidance. So you are an energy. You are a part of source consciousness. You are consciousness herself experiencing this living vibration.

It’s so exciting. And when you come together with other people, what happens is you start to bring those auras together, those blueprints, and you create your very own entity within a relationship. And this is how we learn from each other. We transfer energy and knowledge and wisdom. This happens in our everyday lives with our family and our friends, with our clients, even with strangers and acquaintances.

This happens when our auras and our energies, they mold together in different circumstances. And I always say people are here for a reason, a season or a lifetime. And we get to really make a difference with anyone that comes into our reality. And do note that your reality is your reality. And of course, we will go past other people and get to experience parts of their reality.

Living a Spirit led life means trusting your nudges, honouring your energy, and taking action upon what feels energetically correct for you. And I’m going to share with you three ways that you can live a real Spirit led life. It’s really easy. Something that I do personally for myself. Like, it’s so easy.

You’re probably like, "Oh my gosh." But if you apply this to your life, I promise you, your life will be Spirit led, and it will be full of abundance, joy, and love. So, I’m going to share that with you now, and then we’re going to get into a meditation that is going to help you unlock and activate your gifts so you can bring them out to the world in your everyday life. How does that feel for you? Three simple ways that you can live a Spirit led life daily. The first one is ask Spirit what would you have me do today?

I always ask my Spirit guides, my Spirit team and literally like the spirits that are around me, my ancestors, you know, any spirits that are wanting to contribute to me that are of the highest frequencies, vibrations and of the true white light. Of course, I ask them, what would you have me do today? Spirit, guide me. Give me some signs and synchronicities. I will ask questions from Spirit.

And then I go into the second one which is feeling. Trusting what you get. Trusting the feelings that you are getting with if something is correct for you or not. Because Spirit might give you literally a smorgasbord of ideas. They might even like give you a whole lot of different messages to give to different people.

But you’ve got to feel into that. And what I notice in Magnificent Mediumship is people come to me and go, "I’ve got all these messages for all of these people. What do I do with it?" Now, just because Mary’s mother is saying, "Hey, go and tell Mary that I’m here and I’ve got a message for her." Doesn’t mean that you need to ring up Mary and go, "I’ve got your mother here." Okay? I get this question a lot in Magnificent Mediumship because we as mediums, as intuitives, as Spirit led human beings, we receive a lot of information and we need to know how to filter that out and what to do about it. So, this is the second thing we do is we must feel into what that means.

And they give you this smorgasbord and it’s like, well, what do I do with this? You feel into it. So, we’ve got ask, we’ve got feel, and then we’ve got choose. Now, choosing is just as important as the first two because you have free will. And just because Spirit is coming to you or you’ve got this information to take action, right, you might not want to.

You might not choose to. You could be a platform medium or maybe you could be an actress or a dancer or, you know, a CEO of many companies. Whatever it is, I mean, you could be anything you want to be really, but it’s choice. Choice does matter. And here is the thing I want to tell you.

Truth over fear. So yes, we have a choice and yes, I want to make it easy. It should be easy. Communication with Spirit and activating our gifts should be easy. But fear comes in.

Because when we are choosing and when we are feeling a bit charged and when we’re feeling a little bit stretched, that’s not a bad thing. There’s a little bit of resistance when it comes to truth. The thing that you’re the most afraid to say is usually the thing that you should say. And what I say to my mediums and Magnificent Mediumship is 99% of what you say will not make sense to you, but it will make sense to the person that you’re saying it to. Have you ever had a conversation with a friend and you’re giving them some advice on their relationship or on their next steps going forward into their career and you’re literally like, I don’t even know what I just said or where that kind of came from.

And this is what we call channelling. A lot of people don’t realise it, but you are already a channel. Just like Katie was already a medium. She just wasn’t aware of that skill set that she had within her. So you get to choose whether you say yes or no.

But not only that, choosing truth over fear is going to transform your life. Taking a step that is a little bit edgy and allowing yourself if it feels good in your heart but it’s still a little bit scary, go for it. Okay. So there’s a few different ways that we can look at choice and what that means. But we want to be able to ask.

We want to be able to feel. And we want to be able to choose. This is how we live a Spirit led life. Taking radical responsibility for our choices. Making sure we are asking for contributions and feeling into our gut knowing.

You can’t go wrong if you ask, feel, and choose. Have you guys got it? Have I said it enough? Have I planted enough seeds? And we’re going to be getting into our activation in just a few moments.

Before we get into the activation, I just want to let you know talking about really coming into our abilities and activating them. It’s really simple, but at the same time, energetically, emotionally, it’s not easy because of the conditioning that we’ve experienced because it hasn’t been accepted in society to use our magic powers. People might call it voodoo or dabbling or, you know, there’s a lot of judgments, considerations, projections about expectations about how we should be living our life. But one thing that I’ve done is I dedicated myself to live a life of consciousness. And this doesn’t mean that I don’t pack tantrums and I don’t feel the edginess or I don’t have an argument with my husband from time to time or I don’t get frustrated with my kids.

Like honestly, I’m so human. And this is why I do these videos. I want to let you know how human we can be as well as gifted because we all are gifted. It’s really about choosing what you’re interested in. And when people come into Magnificent Mediumship, quite often they’re like Katie and they go, "Oh, I don’t know if I’m a medium, so I probably shouldn’t do this program." Right?

And then I’m like, "What is your soul calling you to do? What is your gut instinct telling you to do?" No convincing, no persuading, free choice, free will, no psychology. And literally when they do choose themselves, when you do choose yourself in whatever capacity, maybe you want to go back to school and be a nurse or a school teacher or maybe you do want to be that singer or dancer or maybe the psychic medium, you know, whenever you choose yourself, it’s going to be scary. But following your truth over fear will always be so worth it because for me being brought up Catholic and going through the duality of awakening, of love and literally fear.

I used to say love and fear don’t coexist. And I revoked that, because I’m like well I love but I’m still feeling fear. So now I walk with fear. I feel the edge and I get uncomfortable when I’m too comfortable. I want that edge and that’s what creates success in the most aligned way.

So, are you ready to activate your gifts? And then, are you ready to take on the responsibility of having a clear vessel and living a life that is true and aligned for you, which means happiness? When people come to me and they’re afraid to go into their own soul or to seek consciousness or to choose themselves first because they’re worried what their partners are going to think or what their family is going to think. I say, "Look, I totally get what you are saying. However, you don’t have to become a preacher.

You don’t have to tell people to change their belief systems, but you have to be true to yourself. And your gifts are sitting there in your heart. And when Katie said yes to Magnificent Mediumship and I could feel her nana there, her nana had only passed on honestly a few weeks before it was very short amount of time and they were close. They were like best friends. She was able to access the information from her nana to feel her to connect in with her and it just took a bit of activation, a little bit of clearing and a little bit of acknowledgement of her gifts for her to be able to do that for herself.

And then for so many other people. So if that feels like a bit of you, let’s get into this meditation. And maybe Magnificent Mediumship is the next step for you. Or maybe something else pops through that you’ve been really called to do. But what would it take for you to listen to your soul to activate your soul essence and bring it out into the world?

Your only responsibility is to stay inspired and to stay Spirit led. Okay. So now I want you to find a space that’s nice and comfortable because we’re going to get into the meditation. Take a nice deep breath filling up your belly and breathing out your mouth as you come down into relaxation. Making sure that you’re in a space where you’re warm and comfortable, where you can lie down or you can sit up with having some support.

If you need to do that, you can pause the video and make sure you’re in a space where you will be uninterrupted for the next few minutes. Breathing in deeply again all the way down to your belly. Filling up your belly and breathing out your mouth and letting all of the energy drop down down letting all the words drop down. And again in your own time breathing in and out and just allowing your body to be fully relaxed in the space that you are. And what you want to be doing now is just surrendering to relaxation, dropping those barriers down and knowing that you are safe, guided, loved, and protected.

I invite you to do a scan from the top of your head all the way down to your toes. Noticing any sticky, crunchy, sore, tight parts of your body. And breathing in your warm breath into any areas that need to be loosened up. And then breathing out that stress or tension. So, you want to be breathing in your own rhythm to any spaces in your body that need a gentle caressing as you’re breathing in the light and then you are breathing out any stress or tension.

This is your time to fully relax deeper and deeper as we begin to claim the gifts that are already within you. Equalising your breath and fully allowing the space to relax. There’s nowhere you need to be right now other than here. Maybe you put a little smile on your face. Congratulations for giving yourself this time to activate your very own gifts and to claim your magic.

Breathing in a golden light. And as you breathe out this golden light, visualise filling up your aura with gold. Maybe it’s a golden dust, a golden smoke, a golden sparkle. Every time you breathe in a golden light and you breathe out the golden light, you are filling up your aura as we are lightening up the aura. Cleaning and clearing and cleansing the aura.

Breathing in this golden light and visualising your entire body being filled with golden light through your entire body as your heart centre starts to merge all of this light through your entire body, pumping out golden light with each breath. Golden light fills the vessel and the heart pumps out gold through the veins. Your entire body is now a golden light along with your aura. Beautiful. And just relaxing deeper, feeling something that you are grateful for today.

Maybe it’s a few moments here of relaxation. Maybe it’s the children in your life, the friends. Maybe it’s being grateful for your body for being here on the planet. Gratitude is the quickest and easiest way to access your gifts and magic. I invite you to bring one hand to your heart and one to your solar plexus, the space that is just above your belly button.

And repeat after me in your mind or out loud. I remember who I am. I trust what I receive. I am a clear channel for Spirit. I choose to live guided, aligned, and awake.

My psychic gifts are activated. Now, I’m going to say this a couple more times and you can just allow yourself to just really let it sink in as you relax and receive. I remember who I am. I trust what I receive. I am a clear channel for Spirit.

I choose to live guided, aligned, and awake. My psychic gifts are activated now. Breathe it in. Let it settle. Let it become you.

I remember who I am. I trust what I receive. I am a clear channel for Spirit. I choose to live guided, aligned, and awake. My psychic gifts are activated now.

And just notice this golden light that you are bathing in. The gold that is running through your veins, your third eye awakening, your heart expanding, your root chakra anchoring down into the planet, opening the crown chakra, and visualising a light flooding on down through the central column of your body. Choosing a colour as we are balancing the crown, the third eye, the throat, the heart, the solar plexus, the sacral and the root. Balancing, aligning, allowing, activating all parts of your gifts. Now I allow myself to receive and see my gifts with ease.

I promise to use my gifts for the highest good of all, including myself. I invite you to really anchor in living a Spirit led life where you ask Spirit daily. What would you have me do today? You get to feel before you force. If it drains you, it is not aligned.

Your energy is your guidance system. You get to choose truth over fear. The thing that you’re afraid to say is usually the clearest message of them all. Trusting yourself. Trusting your gifts and being in allowance of being self led and guided.

You are the strongest entity in your reality. Allowing any messages to come through in the form of vibration, feeling, even using your greatest imagination. Memories might pop up, words might pop up, Spirit might pop up. Please know that this activation will continue to work. So don’t get caught up or do not go into your mind to try to force anything.

Faith over force. I’m going to be quiet for the next few moments as you receive any information coming through for your activations of your spiritual gifts. You might feel some emotions. Your body may even have some tears or have a change in temperature. You are safe.

You are guided. You’re loved and you’re protected. So just allow whatever is coming through to come through now. Beautiful work. We’re going to start journeying back now.

So, I invite you to start coming back into your body from wherever you have drifted from. Allowing your energy to come back into your body fully. Allowing yourself to come back into your body fully. Allowing yourself to come back into your body fully allowing yourself to fully come back into your body. Wriggling your fingers, wriggling your toes, bringing the attention to behind your eyes.

And when you are ready, open your eyes, blinking them open. Find something blue in the room. Have a look at your hands as you’re fully back into your body, wide awake and energised. How are you feeling? You are reconnected, cleared.

You’ve received and you’re activated. This golden light will be with you for the next few days. And of course, you can do this meditation as many times as you choose to. Also, feel free to send it to a friend if you feel like this would benefit them as well. How do you feel in your body from when you started this activation?

This is something you might want to journal about. How am I feeling now? What difference am I noticing? What are the messages that have come through for me? I’m sure some of you received messages.

Actually, I know you all receive messages, but of course, they will all be revealed in divine timing. These videos, this video series is here to help awaken you to your gifts on a deeper level. You are Spirit and to know Spirit is to know self. You’re the strongest entity in your reality and you are very gifted just like my friend Katie who ended up doing Magnificent Mediumship and end up reading for all the people in there. Okay.

And I just use her as one example but it happens to like all of them that come in, right? Of course they activate their gifts. They remember and they build so much confidence and then they get to bring this out into the everyday life. Whether it’s being a Mum, being a nurse, a teacher, a psychologist, or being a medium.

Victoria Bond

Victoria Bond was a hairdresser in a small New Zealand town until she woke up to her gifts at 33. Author of Everyone Is a Medium. Read her story.