How to become a psychic medium: free mediumship training for beginners
The signs Spirit uses to get your attention, why every one of us is born with this, and Victoria’s first reading, upstairs after a haircut. Her most watched lesson, free to watch right here.
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Try this first
One minute, before you press play. Pick one thing you keep noticing: a song on repeat, a feather, waking at the same time, a name that keeps coming back.
- Ask the question.
Why am I seeing these feathers? Why am I getting the song?
- Let it land.
Ask the question, let it land.
No forcing, no demanding an answer. - Write down what lands.
Even start writing things down.
A word, a picture, a name, a feeling. Write down whatever comes.
In this video (tap a moment to jump to it)
Tap every sign you’ve had
These are the signs Victoria describes in this video. Be honest. Nobody sees this but you.
Tap the ones that feel familiar.
“If you’ve experienced any of the things that I’ve just said, they are signs that Spirit is trying to get your attention.”
What people say after watching
OMG, all what you said regarding not sleeping well waking up at between 3 and 4.30 in the morning, feeling like water in my ear … I have had no one to talk this over with and felt so alone.
I have had a feeling I’m supposed to be a medium and I feel like I’m going crazy so I asked spirit for a teacher and your video popped up!
OMG!! I tried cards once and I heard in a very clear, strong voice in my right ear telling me to "Throw -The-Cards-Away". I haven't understood why that happened until I watched your video.
I have so many symptoms you spoke about. Ringing and vibrating in ear, waking up in middle of night 222, 333… I thought it was just me!! It’s like you were talking right to me!
Victoria has a beautiful ability to put words to those concepts that are almost impossible to describe. She’s a wonderful teacher and a cut above the rest ❤
The first question I wonder, is, am I making this up in my head??? But you totally showed me how to embrace my confidence!
I’ve spent the whole week watching different videos on what it means to be a psychic medium and this was so clear and now I understand 😅
I broke down full tears when you started talking about giving your first reading. … I know what I have to do now.
I resonate with your story (raised conservative Christian) and only learned within the last year that I have gifts which I have stifled and denied my whole life … Everything you’re saying resonates SO clearly.
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In her own words
“You are Spirit in a human form. Without your body, you are Spirit. So to communicate with Spirit, we must understand that we are Spirit.”
“I asked questions, and rather than actually trying to hear the answer or see the answer or demand the answer, I let the answer land. I let the answer land in the timing it was meant to.”
“If you're lucky enough to be able to hear with your ears and see with your eyes, that is amazing. But ninety percent of people, it is the subtleties that we feel within our body that is actually connecting in with our mediumship skills.”
Questions this video answers
Are you born a psychic medium?
A hundred percent you're born with it. Every single person is born with it, and every single baby that is born can see spirits. They are intuitive. Most people don't understand this because they blocked it off at a very, very young age. Most of us don't remember before four years old, and that is generally where we were our most conscious. This has been us becoming a medium, or should I say, remembering I was a medium.
Do you need tarot or oracle cards to be a medium?
Cards are amazing. They are not to be completely relied on. Your intuition comes first, before that. I teach people not to rely on the cards, and definitely not to rely on the book. Playing with all the toys is literally just a bonus. It's just fun.
How does Spirit communicate with you?
They can communicate with you through all your different senses. You can get the popping in your ear. That's how they talk to you. With your eyes, they communicate with you a lot through your visions. Quite often you might feel a spirit touching you, and you can get tingles and tingles and tingles. But quite often it's so subtle, and we haven't actually realised that Spirit is working through us.
What if I feel like a fraud?
So the fraud button, you may feel that. The fraud thing comes in: who do I think I am? Half the problem is, sometimes people just don't try. They say, I can't do it, but they didn't try. You've got to do the thing. You've got to practice. You're just remembering your birthright of being a medium, but you still have to practice, because it's just like hopping on a bike and riding.
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What her client said, the day Victoria nearly didn’t try
The reading that started it all
This is the pivotal point in my entire life. I'm hairdressing, and I knew that the lady in the chair was spiritual. I knew she went to a spiritual church. And I said to her, could I please read for you? I am absolutely petrified, but I've got to try, because if I don't try then I am literally always going to wonder why.
We'd gone upstairs after I'd done her hair. So I got my cards and I started shuffling them. I'm shaking like a leaf, feeling like a fraud, going, who do I think I am?
And I hear this little voice, and it says, don't use cards. So I put down my cards. I drop my barriers. I expand my energy. I open my heart, and I say, I lead with love, show me what I need to tap into for this lady. And all of a sudden, it's like a movie turned on.
I saw this man who looked like Clark Gable from Gone with the Wind. He's got this moustache, and he's tall, and he's slim, very, very slim. And then I see two children, a boy and a girl, one slightly older than the other, both blonde with blue eyes. He wanted to say thank you, but he was feeling sad.
“She said to me, Victoria, that is the best reading I’ve ever had. My uncle, he died three years ago.”
He was a stay at home dad, and one day, in the middle of the night, his wife took the children and fled overseas. He didn't see them again for many, many years, until my client, the person I was reading for, got them together in a pub, randomly, overseas. She got to reconnect her uncle and her cousins. He wanted to come and say thank you.
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Welcome to the Becoming a Psychic Medium masterclass. I am your host, Victoria Bond, and I am delighted to bring you the things that other people are not. I'm a psychic medium and a spiritual empowerment coach, and the reason why this video is going to be so beneficial for those who are interested in mediumship is because I'm going to take all of those years of investigating out of your hands and give to you a nice, simple masterclass so you can start your mediumship. Yes, this is a collapsing of timelines and a quantum leap, if you choose it to be so.
So let's begin. Where to start with mediumship: the tools of mediumship, the dos and the don'ts, what is a psychic medium, intuition as well with the mediumship, and the different ways that Spirit communicates. There's so much we need to go through today. I'm going to try to get as much to you as I possibly can.
So what is a psychic medium? We have had these points of view, these judgments and these considerations, that to be a psychic medium you've got to look into the future. We've had these interesting points of view that to be a psychic medium you've got to see a spirit and actually communicate and hear them and all the things. We've been so conditioned about what a psychic medium is that, the truth is, we've all got these big question marks, like what the heck is a psychic medium? And we've put psychic mediumship abilities in the minority.
The truth is, we are all psychic mediums. Yes, I have said it. Now, some people are not going to like that I have said that, but as a teacher of mediumship I can tell you, hundreds of people have gone through my program and every single one of them has had psychic mediumship gifts.
One of the questions that we get quite often is, are you born with this? Well, a hundred percent you're born with it. Every single person is born with it, and every single baby that is born can see spirits. They are intuitive. They know what is good for them or not, because they are really speaking with energy.
So, going back to the basics, what is a psychic medium? A psychic medium is a person who can communicate with Spirit. Now, here's the thing I want you to listen to, when I say you are Spirit in a human form. Without your body, you are Spirit. So to communicate with Spirit, we must understand that we are Spirit. We must take Spirit down from that pedestal, or from where we've been afraid of them, and realise that when we're communicating with Spirit, especially when we're doing readings, we are simply talking to another soul just like us.
So psychic mediumship is about talking to Spirit, but there are also different layers and different ways that we can use our psychic mediumship abilities. We can use cards, and we can read those cards by using our intuition. We're also using a whole entire team of Spirit guides that work with us. We are a tribe. Wherever we go, there's at least another 20 people for every human body we see. So it's never just one singular person. We are human, we have Spirits with us, and they help us read, whether it's through cards, whether it's through seeing, whether it's through channelling, or whether it's through knowing or hearing. We all have different ways that we can connect into Spirit.
But the problem is, most people don't understand this because they blocked it off at a very, very young age. Most of us don't remember before four years old, and that is generally where we were our most conscious, because of course we didn't have the mistaken beliefs and the limitations that we have been conditioned with as we've grown up, with our tribes, with society, with the system that we are currently in.
So a psychic medium, in my opinion, is not just somebody that can dive into the future and read the future. To be honest with you, there are so many more potentials. It's not just one way, one destiny. There are many, many, many different paths, and a good psychic medium is going to highlight the most prominent parts, but also leave you to make your own decisions, knowing that you have free will in how you go about your day to day life as your life unfolds. So a good psychic medium is not going to define your future. They're going to show you the possibilities.
Now, this is what clairvoyance is. Clairvoyance can see future events. They can also see Spirit, whether it's in their third eye or with their eyes. So that's another thing as well. But everyone is psychic. Everyone has the ability, and I can't wait to share more with you, because very, very soon I'm going to tell you some of the things that you can do to tap into your psychic mediumship abilities.
So for me, when I was pregnant with my son, I literally had some of the symptoms I want to share with you. And this is why tapping into your intuition is one of the most important things you can do when it comes to being a psychic medium, especially when you're beginning. So I'm pregnant with my son, and all I kept getting was in my ear. I kept feeling like there was water in my ear, so I'd always be jumping up trying to get the water out of my ear.
I couldn't sleep. These are some of the symptoms if you have a very, very sharp psychic mediumship ability. So I literally couldn't sleep. I felt like there was always someone around me. There was a buzzing. I had mind chatter. I'd wake up at three o'clock in the morning, like 3:33 or 3:15, and I was just wired. I thought I was going crazy. The signs and synchronicities around me were blowing my mind. There were feathers everywhere, and I'd see them physically with my eyes as I was walking down the street, or they would float down from the sky. Then it got to the point that I was walking into a room and I felt like the whole room was full of feathers. I was seeing it in my eyes.
Songs about angels would come on, or a song would come on and I would get the earworm, and I'd just hear the same song going over and over and over for days on end, until something would stop it. Like my friend would tell me about her brother that had passed away, and it was his birthday or something like that. Or somebody's name would pop into my head and I couldn't stop thinking about them.
What were some of the other things that would happen? Colours would pop at me. Books would pop at me. I felt like I was so highly, highly sensitive, and I thought maybe it was the pregnancy. I thought maybe I had depression or anxiety, maybe I was a little bit manic. But it kept happening and happening and happening, and I started noticing I could smell smoke. I could taste something funny. I would have these dreams that were just out the gate. There were random faces before I was going to sleep, and I just felt like I was in a room screaming, what is going on?
So to be a psychic medium, if you've experienced any of the things that I've just said, they are signs that Spirit is trying to get your attention, to wake you up. The truth is, we are all psychic mediums.
One of the things that I did was I started saying, what are the lyrics of that song that's going around and around and around? And I would listen to the lyrics. I'd write them down. When I couldn't sleep at three in the morning, I'd say, is there something here keeping me awake, and what the heck is it? Show yourself to me. When I started seeing feathers around, I'd say, why are you showing me feathers?
So this is another hot tip: questions. Why am I seeing these feathers? Why am I getting the song? Why am I waking up all the time? How and why did I just see a shadow? What am I smelling, and who does that belong to? So that is what I did. I asked questions, and rather than actually trying to hear the answer or see the answer or demand the answer, I let the answer land. I let the answer land in the timing it was meant to.
And this is what happened next. The signs and the synchronicities, words, even pictures would pop out at me, and all of a sudden I was able to translate what the words meant when it came to the question I asked. Maybe it was a name that popped out when I asked who was that shadow, or that smell that I had. And maybe I knew that person, when I asked who that person was connected to: a client's partner who had passed away, or a friend's brother that passed away. The most bizarre pieces of the puzzle started coming together when I started to stop and recognise the strange things happening, the symptoms of mediumship.
This has been us becoming a medium, or should I say, remembering I was a medium. I would ask a question, I would let it land, something would pop out, which would connect to another thing, which would connect to another thing. They were like smacking me in the face.
Here's the thing. I can hear you now. Well, how's that going to happen for me? That doesn't happen for me. It happens differently for me. Nothing happens for me. I'm blocked, I'm not a psychic medium, but I feel like there's a little niggle in me that just wants to keep listening. But I'm triggered, because I don't know if this applies to me.
Here's the thing. Every single person has got all of these senses: clairvoyant, clairaudient, so you can hear and you can see, and you can taste and you can sense and you can feel, and you're an empath. We all have them. Some have some that are stronger than others, and others are more in the dream state, but we have the ability to connect to every single one of them, if we have the patience to ask the questions and the allowance to drop our barriers.
This is another golden nugget. I hope you've got a pen and paper here, and I hope you've saved this video. If we can drop those barriers, and if we can expand our energy when it comes to psychic mediumship and tapping into Spirit and reading the future for people, whatever the goal is, we can drop our barriers and expand our energy rather than shrinking and hiding and being in fear of what's going to come through. You become the most incredible medium. You really, really do.
And for me, it was a matter of ripping off that band aid and going, I'm going to play. I'm going to share with you some of the tools that I use very, very soon, and the story that actually exploded me into mediumship and my business.
This only began when I was 33 years old. 33 years old, I was awakening and remembering my gifts. I knew nowhere and no one. I had no idea how to start. I went into crystal shops and I was going, I think I'm awakening, can you help me? And they'd go, here you go, here's a channelling book. And I was like, thank you. But I didn't know how to ask, you know, like, I need help, what do I do? I was brought up religious, so I wasn't allowed to go into crystal shops or play with these cards, or play with wands or pendulums or crystals. I wasn't allowed to, because it was just bad. We weren't allowed to. So I had no one to ask any questions to.
So if you're at the beginning of your journey, and also if you are religious, I need to speak to this really briefly as well. If you've been religious, or if you are religious, if you call yourself a Christian, if you call yourself an atheist, whatever the labels are, could we just drop them for a minute and ask? And I'm going to tell you another hot tip right now. Ask yourself to drop your barriers, expand, and say, what would love do? What would love do? And if I can trust my heart, and if I can trust myself, and I've got these God given gifts, why would I have them if I'm not meant to use them?
As you drop your barriers, you expand, you then open your heart, and when you do a reading you always lead with love. Always lead with love.
Is there bad stuff when it comes to psychic mediumship? Yes, if you are choosing to play with darkness. Now, there's no difference between that and playing with people that have got darkness and have got bodies. Who do you hang out with in your everyday life? You are who you hang out with. So I choose to hang out with high vibe, high frequency, beautiful light humans, as well as Spirits. So you don't need to worry about being possessed or dabbling, because when you're leading from your heart, when you're dropping your barriers and expanding, when you are feeling grounded, then only good can come from that. And your mediumship gets super, super sharp. So yes, everyone can absolutely do this.
Your intuition is so, so important. You have got different energy centres and chakras. You've got the main seven, also known as energy centres and chakras. If you don't know about that yet, go Google that, because if you're like me, you have no idea. I had no idea what they were. If you're a spiritual person at all, you will know what the chakra system is. But what we need to know about the energy meridians within us is that there's not just the seven main ones. There are the seven main ones, but there are lots of little ones as well. And we actually read through our energy centres.
We are energetic beings, and our first language was energy. So intuition is a very, very, very strong part of mediumship. Mediumship is not external from you. Your Spirit guides are not external from you. God is not external from you. Source energy is not external from you. Even your client, your reading, is not external from you. You are a mirror of everything in your reality.
This is kind of quantum, but this is another hot tip. If you see the world around you as a mirror for all of the high vibe and even the low vibe, you will find that you see yourself in every situation, in every trigger and every celebration. And then you realise, if everything is internal, then you can go within and really heal any wounds that you have, or turn up any of those superpowers, rather than bypassing or blaming or shaming or guilting the external. You can actually own your own power. We're getting a little bit more advanced here, so I'm going to take it back a little bit, and there are many more videos on how to tap into the quantum.
Some of the other things I wanted to talk to you about are the different ways Spirit communicates. Like I mentioned before with the symptoms, you can get the popping in your ear. That's how they talk to you. You're shifting frequency, just like a radio station changing, and you are tuning in to them talking.
It was just today, I was doing a very long call, an hour and three quarters, with one of my clients, and when I was listening to her I went, ow, and I got this in my ears. I was like, oh my gosh, Spirit's trying to talk to me. It was about my client. It's always about your client. If you're reading for your client, it's never about you, but you are a mirror. And I was like, whoa, okay, she's clairaudient, because of the ears, and Spirit is trying to talk to her. Is she listening? Interesting. So I had to ask a question. Is she listening? What am I hearing? Is this for her? Is this saying she's clairaudient, or is this saying she needs to listen? Because there are always double meanings. And you get the gist of this when you know how to listen to your intuition, which is a completely different video, but super, super important.
With your eyes, they communicate with you a lot through your visions. So visions, and kind of thought processes. Your thoughts are mediumship. Your thoughts when I'm reading, and I'm going to tell you a story in a moment about how I came to really figure that one out. I figured this all out myself. So you might be thinking about something to do with somebody. You're talking to somebody and you're having these flashbacks and these visions and feelings, and all these things are happening. That is because they belong to that person. You're in their head. You are picking things out of their head. Or your imagination is legit telling you the stuff. It's like a movie playing in your head.
So there's a couple of different things there. You can take things from their head and see it, or you literally are playing out a movie in your head, and that's usually Spirit giving you so much information. So the head and the mind and the imagination are very, very important when it comes to mediumship. That's how I do a lot of my readings. I just trust everything that's coming in, and I say it, and then I either get a yes or a no. And if I get a no, then it usually means the other option. So it's like, okay, well, what else can that mean? And we always start putting those pieces of the puzzle together. Yay! Most mediums are afraid to ask questions and to put those pieces of the puzzle together, so getting a no is actually great in mediumship, because then you can say, well, let's find the other pieces.
So what are other ways? You can feel touch. Quite often you might feel a spirit touching you, or in your body you might get an ow, an ache, or you might get a sharp pain in your heart or your head. Often that is how the spirit has passed away, or if you're reading for the person, maybe they have had heart problems themselves, and it's Spirit giving you evidence to say, hey, this person knows what they're doing, keep going, trust this person. As confirmation and evidence.
Other ways Spirit can communicate with you are through tingling in your fingers as well, tingling in a piece of you, especially if you're a healer. If you're a natural healer, you might have healing codes that come through your hands and heal while you're reading. You can get tingles and tingles and tingles.
Sometimes I literally just sense a female. I could sense a female being around. They will stand next to you, and you will kind of see in your head a little old lady standing there, and you'll be like, I can feel it, there's a lady here. It's all in your head. But okay. How tall do I feel she is? How old do I feel she is? Does she know that she's even passed away? What is her connection? If it's on the left side, for me it's usually the mother. It's on the mother's side of the person I'm reading for. If it's on the right side, it's usually the father. That is the way it works for me, and it can work differently for everybody, but that's the rules I made up. Because I create my own reality, I can actually connect to Spirits in a way that I choose to.
I was looking externally, through all these people, trying to figure out how to put all these symptoms together and make them into something that I could understand. And then I started realising that I am Spirit too.
So they can communicate with you through all your different senses. Also, it's really amazing: if you're meant to meet somebody, you'll all of a sudden start bumping into them at the supermarket. They will put people and situations and songs and feathers, they will put money, they will put all sorts of stuff within your reach. But quite often it's so subtle, and we haven't actually realised that Spirit is working through us, communicating with us. The subtleties are not so subtle when you start seeing them. You're like, whoa, that was amazing. But the subtleties are always happening. Spirit is always working for you. The universe is always working for you.
And when you get these buzzings, or the pops in your ears, or you see a shadow, or you see a neon sign when you ask a question, you see "mother", you know, when your head is telling you stories, stop and just tune in. Why do I say this? Because it's taken so much effort for Spirit to come and give you this message, and when we bypass it we are literally disrespecting Spirit, and they may have tried for years to connect with you.
Okay, so the story. I'm hairdressing. I was a hairdresser, and this is the pivotal point in my entire life. I'm hairdressing, and I knew that the lady in the chair was spiritual. I knew she went to a spiritual church. I knew that she was really super gifted, and I had told her how I had been getting signs and synchronicities, and I thought I was a medium. And I said to her, could I please read for you? I am absolutely petrified, and I think that this isn't real, but I've got to try, because if I don't try then I am literally always going to wonder why. I'm always going to wonder why.
And I had a little bit of guilt because of being brought up Catholic. It was like, Mum was always like, don't do that stuff. Yes, we've got it in the family, but don't do it, you know, give it up to God. But I was like, I want to reach as many people as I possibly can. If I have this gift, if I could tap into Spirit, if I could help people that have lost their loved ones, or lost their children, or lost their parents, or anyone that's grieving, then I've got to do this. I've always wanted to help people.
So what I did was, I got a deck of cards. We'd gone upstairs after I'd done her hair, and I was shaking like a leaf, but I was like, I've got to try.
Half the problem is, sometimes people just don't try. They say, I can't do it, but they didn't try. Okay, another golden tip. You've got to do the thing. You've got to practice. You've got to put yourself out there to actually be able to read. Would we have been able to walk if we hadn't practiced? We learned. So this is amazing, because you're just remembering your birthright of being a medium, but you still have to practice, because it's just like hopping on a bike and riding. You eventually actually remember that it's kind of easy. It just seems so foreign.
So I got my cards and I started shuffling them. I'm shaking like a leaf, and I'm just like, oh my gosh, this is D Day, this is do or quit, you know? So I'm shuffling them along, feeling like a fraud, going, who do I think I am? My ego is yelling at me: how do you turn 33 and think you're a psychic medium when you've never done a reading?
So the fraud button, you may feel that. Let me know if you feel that. The fraud thing comes in: who do I think I am?
And I hear this little voice, and it says, don't use cards. I couldn't even read them. I'm looking at them and I'm like, nah, I've got no connection there. So I put down my cards. I drop my barriers. I expand my energy. I open my heart, and I say, I lead with love, show me what I need to tap into for this lady. And all of a sudden, it's like a movie turned on.
I close my eyes and it goes so, so far. Spirit is very, very fast, so sometimes we've got to ask Spirit, please slow down, and then we have to speed up. And I saw this man who looked like Clark Gable from Gone with the Wind, which is a very, very, very old film. I saw this man who's got this look, and he's got this moustache, and he's gorgeous, and he's tall, and he's slim, very, very slim. And I go, okay, I'm just seeing a man that looks like from Gone with the Wind. I couldn't even remember his name.
And then all of a sudden I was like, what else do I see? And I'm shutting my eyes, and I'm nervous and I'm shaking, and I'm like, no, but I've got to do this, it means so much to me. And then I see two children, a boy and a girl, one slightly older than the other, both blonde with blue eyes. And I'm like, but he's dark. Oh well, this is what I'm seeing. And I'm telling her, I see a man, I see a boy, I see a girl, close in age, blonde hair, blue eyes. And then I tell her what he's feeling, and he was feeling he wanted to say thank you, but he was feeling sad. I can't remember exactly all the things now, I've done thousands of readings since.
But when I told her all these things, I opened my eyes, because I was too nervous to even look at her, and I said to her, that's what I got. She said to me, Victoria, that is the best reading I've ever had. My uncle, he died three years ago. I've been to many, many readers, and very good ones as well, and none of them were able to connect to him, especially like you did today. And I went, what? And I literally said to her, are you lying to me? Are you joking? Because it's not very nice. She said, no, hands down.
And then she went on and she told me that that man had these two beautiful children. He was a stay at home dad, and one day, in the middle of the night, his wife took the children and fled overseas, and he didn't see his children. His heart was broken. He didn't see them again for many, many years, until my client, the person I was reading for, got them together in a pub, randomly, overseas, where she was doing her OE. She got to reconnect her uncle and her cousins. They were then adults. I've got goosebumps even talking about it. And they reunited.
He wanted to come and say thank you, and I could feel his emotions, because the sadness I felt was the fact that his children had been taken away from him. Now, I don't know all of the circumstances or anything like this. This was me tapping in to the family and to what was going on. And he could never, ever express how grateful he was to be reconnected with his children. He had died three years before, at the time that I did that reading, and she was so grateful to be able to connect in with him.
And then I said, okay, well, that's great, what else can I see? And the next minute, another girl comes in, and she's like, hi, here I am, and please don't feel bad for us not being friends when we grew up. One of her childhood friends had just recently passed of cancer, and my client had been feeling super guilty about it. So she came in to say, hey, just your friendship from when we were children was enough to fill my heart. So I just kind of remember that more Spirits had come through, and I kind of visualise them being at a door, stepping in, me having a conversation, them stepping out, and the next person coming in.
So I only had the deck of cards, and I was told not to use them, and I believe that Spirit invited me to do that, so I didn't hide behind the cards. I work with advanced mediums that come to me and go through my signature program, Magnificent Mediumship certification, and a lot of them hide behind their cards. A lot of them are too afraid to charge money. A lot of them are too afraid to say what they're truly seeing, because of this fraudulism and the pressure from the person that they're reading for. They feel like there's this pressure to prove, to give value for money, that type of thing.
But the truth is, to be with a medium and to be a medium is an absolute privilege, because whatever comes through, if a spirit does come through, that is magic. But even to get some beautiful intuitive guidance for your future and your future possibilities is magic as well. So being a psychic medium is not about being a party trick. I'm sure there are some mediums out there that love to be the party trick, but it goes so much deeper. To become a psychic medium means that you are holding somebody. You're this mother archetype, you are a coach archetype. You are literally holding the space for somebody to be vulnerable, to drop their barriers, to expand their energy, and for them to connect with you. This is not a one way street. There are all your Spirit guides, all of their Spirit guides, you as Spirit, them as Spirit, and this deep, deep connection.
So I want to tell you a little bit now about the tools of mediumship. I personally love these. These are what they call tarot cards. I don't use them as tarot cards. I use them as oracle cards. There is a difference. Tarot cards are full of all these different things. I've done tarot training. It doesn't interest me, because I'm more of an intuitive psychic medium. Tarot is great, but I don't use them as tarot. I use them as intuitive guidance. I use them as visuals.
Using visuals is so amazing, because you can literally showcase people and tell them what you're seeing within the card, or the words, or the colours, what is popping for you. Cards are amazing. They are not to be completely relied on. Your intuition comes first, before that. But they are great, because human beings like to see things.
So the cards are great. I teach people not to rely on the cards, and definitely not to rely on the book, because I'm telling you now, a psychic medium who pulls a card and reads from the book is a lazy psychic medium, and it's not psychic. That's not psychic mediumship. It's reading from a card, and my 10 year old can do that. So you have to use your own gut and intuition, unless your intuition says read from the book. Sometimes it happens: I've just got to read this, because my intuition or my knowing tells me.
So to talk to Spirit is your knowing, is your intuition, is the voices in your head, is the stories. If you're lucky enough to be able to hear with your ears and see with your eyes, that is amazing. But for ninety percent of people, it is the subtleties that we feel within our body that are actually connecting in with our mediumship skills. I hope you are getting a lot from this video, by the way.
This is a wand. What is the significance of using a wand? Well, crystals are extremely high vibrational. Do we need crystals? No. Do I choose to use them? Yes, because I will use anything that's going to enhance my readings, or my healings, or my Reiki, or my light language, whatever it is I'm doing.
This is my wand that my best friend made me. It is phenomenal, and it's really important that if you have a wand, you connect in with it. You need to feel like it's the right thing for you. I was very, very lucky that my friend made this. It just fits into my hand perfectly. She literally hunted beaches to get the perfect one, the perfect wood, and all the crystals are significant to my purpose, which is amazing. All crystals mean different things. Crystals come from the earth. So if you've been like, oh, but crystals are bad, no, they're not. They can't be. They come from our Earth. They are pure, and they're not man made. They are from Earth, so it's phenomenal.
What wands are really good for is clearing space before a reading. We want to be able to clear our space. We want to be able to light everything up. We want to have our heart open with love and do a little bit of a light blast. So much more I could share with you about that. I love wands because you can literally work through the computer, or if you're with somebody face to face, you can clear, you can cleanse, you can help to balance those meridian systems that we spoke about. Wands are amazing. I use them all the time.
Now, speaking of crystals, this is just a stunning bowl of crystals. My friend made me this bowl by hand. We've got the rose quartz, which is for the heart. We've got this shungite, which is what I'm wearing, which is deeply, deeply grounding, because I do a lot of work in the galactic and I need to still be able to be here in my human. We have got clear quartz, which is a connector straight up, so you can connect straight into Source energy, straight into Spirit. Basically, the darker crystals are more grounding, and the lighter ones are great for travel and connecting in, especially astral travelling. Amethyst is fantastic, especially when you're having a spiritual awakening, and great for children. So honestly, rose quartz and amethyst are some of the cheapest crystals, but I think the most powerful for children. Absolutely amazing crystals.
I do like selenite. You can put a beautiful light underneath it and it kind of glows different colours, but it actually clears all the other crystals. I have mine sometimes on top here, and it will clear the crystals. The full moon also clears those crystals and charges them.
Another tool that I really love, and this is vibrational as well. I don't know if you can hear this. It's literally vibrating. Sound, singing, even mantra. If you put cacao ceremony or mantras into Spotify, all of that music is so high vibe and vibrational, and it's like a moving prayer. It really helps you with your psychic mediumship. Crystal bowls are very similar to that as well.
So that is what I want to share with you today. Meditation is super important when it comes to becoming a psychic medium. Playing with all the toys is literally just a bonus. It's just fun. We all need toys. But the truth is, if you drop your barriers, you expand and you lead with love, your psychic mediumship will come to you super, super fast, very, very quickly.
Remember: asking the questions, getting a no is good, because you're piecing the puzzle together. Don't make anything too definite, because everyone has got more than one timeline. A psychic medium is not just about talking to dead people. It is really about being an intuitive coach, being a person who can hold space, who can hear the other. And remember, it's not just you doing the reading. You've got the team of Spirit around you.
So to honour those Spirits is to see the signs and the synchronicities. It's to understand that we've got all of these abilities and ways and symptoms that Spirit is using to talk to us. And if we give all of those things the time that they deserve, ask the question, let it land, even start writing things down, magic and miracles will happen. This is what happened in my life. And now, yes, I am a platform medium. Yes, I do readings daily for my clients. Yes, I teach mediumship. And I'm here to show the world and tell the world that you can be a psychic medium too.
I really hope and I trust that what I've shared with you today is beneficial. I would love to connect with you, and I just want to share, from my heart to your heart, what I wish I knew when I was going through those little intuitive hits of, you are a psychic, you know, what are these symptoms, am I going crazy? Usually they pair up, hand in hand. So, sending you so much love. I can't wait to see you in the next video.


